Sagittarius/Cancer?

Question

What would a relationship between a Sagittarius woman (Dec 8, 1988) and a Cancer man (July 22, 1988) be like? Is it likely that this match is good together? What are the positives and negatives of this pair?
(With and without considering that he is on the cusp of Leo, too.)

Thanks!

Answer 1

Sagittarius & Cancer:
Sagittarius will expect Cancer to follow along with his/her ideas and very active social life joining in as much fun (Sagittarius' idea of fun!) as possible. On occasions when Cancer has had it and wishes to stay home, put the feet up, and watch television, Sagittarius will try to talk Cancer into accompanying him/her. Should this fail, Sagittarius will go out alone and find 'other' excitement. There is a vast difference in natures here and the likelihood of being compatible is all but impossible, unless there are mitigating aspects in other areas of their charts. Sagittarius is outgoing and forthright which will make cancer uneasy. Cancer is too needy for Sagittarius. On the good side, they are both generous people.

Sagittarius & Leo:
These two do make a very good match up. Both will feel like they have known each other all their lives. Together they share a liking for freedom, adventure, and meeting new people. Leo's natural quality of leadership brings out what loyalty Sagittarius can give. Leo is very proud, but self-confident and expansive Sagittarius is quite happy to let Leo go. They get along great as friends, lovers and a strong attraction could lead to a long-term love. A love of the good life and lots of laughter will be experienced together. Children and animals will be involved in this relationship. Friends will also say they look great together.

Sagittarius
Although you have a huge capacity for putting your foot in it, you are innocent and free of malicious intent. Your speech is blunt and can, frankly, be extremely unsubtle and tactless. You tend to be oblivious to this, thinking of yourself (rightly) as honest, frank and earnest, and you loathe lying and cheating, but you are a good promoter. Under your bumbling innocent exterior there is a sharp mind with high standards. You have wit, intelligence and a fiery inner drive, which usually persists into old age. You have a refreshing sense of humour, but are often not so good at telling jokes and others may laugh at the telling rather than your material. You tend to be restless and can't stay still. You are often attracted to dangerous sports, as you like the element of risk and speed. You love animals. Your temper can be roused if you sense that your natural friendliness and extrovert good nature is being taken for granted. You tend to speak first and think of the consequences later. You give in to illness very reluctantly and tend to recover very quickly. Perhaps your inherent optimism helps the healing process. Show business is full of Sagittarians, as you tend to be extrovert and daring. You may have a strong religious belief but sometimes as you age you become more sceptical. You adore travel. Often a bit of a gambler, you are warm and wonderful in love but difficult to pin down. Beware the love of too much food and drink and your difficulty in keeping a secret.

Born on the Cusp of Cancer/Leo between July 19 to July 23
Cancer is the fourth sign of the Zodiac; Leo is the fifth. Those born on the Cancer/Leo cusp have the vitality and ambition to be successful in their creative endeavours. Creativity is one of their keywords, and their caring nature ensures that the benefits of their imaginative powers help others. Cancer/Leo's turn to nurturing the family group and take pride in their warm hospitality. They are emotional and traditional, interested in heredity and ancestors. Cancer/Leo's can be prominent on stage and in film, as their natural ability to act and their flamboyance and love of attention make them naturals at fame. The astrological symbol of Cancer is the Crab; for Leo, it's the Lion. Cancer/Leo's go through life with a strong shell around them that is not easily broken. However, Cancer/Leo's are the first to express emotion in any given situation -- the first to laugh and the first to tears. In this way, the Cancerian influence exemplifies the cardinal quality assigned to it. They also have a strong ability to see their projects through to the end. In this way, Leo exemplifies the fixed quality assigned to it. Cancer/Leo's are good organizers and tend to be popular, even inspiring. Cancer is ruled by the Moon, and Leo is ruled by the Sun. In ancient times, the Moon, which represents fertility and instinct, was perceived as the Great Mother, responsible for nurturing all life. The Moon controls the tides and all water on Earth, and it has a strong effect on human emotions. Cancer and Cancer/Leo's tend to be more sensitive to the movement of the Moon through the zodiac than are other signs, their moods changing with the Moon's passage. In ancient times, the Sun was believed to be the centre of the Universe, the core of existence, the Father. The Sun generates warmth and keeps life on Earth moving. Leo's and Cancer/Leo's sometimes feel they are the center of the universe, and sometimes they are! They are gregarious and social, fun-loving and live life with enthusiasm. Generally domestic and peaceful, they have strong emotional drives and won't sit still when loved ones are threatened. The Sun and Moon, mother and father, day and night; Cancer/Leo's are all of these things, and finding a way to express the entire continuum is both a challenge and a much-needed emotional release. The element associated with Cancer is Water. Water Signs are emotional: they tend to respond to the world through emotion. The element associated with Leo is Fire. Fire Signs are physical and tend to respond to the world through action. Cancer/Leos are very intuitive and jump head first into life, without worrying whether their latest goal is realistic or practical. For them, everything about life is Big with a capital B, and if drama and courage is required to meet their goals, they have both in abundance. Their warm and caring nature is very sensitive to other people's harshness. Cancer/Leos are cheerful and self-assured, sometimes to the point of living in a fantasy world. They are always happy as long as someone is paying attention to them! Cancer/Leo's have a strong association with food. They are very imaginative and sensitive, making them excellent amateur chefs. Some go on to make a career out of cooking. Pleasure is important to those born on the Cancer/Leo cusp, and they like to spend money to feel good. Cancer/Leos tend to enjoy physical exercise, finding that sweat helps them counter the stress inherent in their emotional nature. They prefer to play in groups, rather than solo. They are too sociable to enjoy solitary running or weight lifting, and they much prefer team sports or group exercise. In love relationships, Cancer/Leo's top the charts in almost every area, from devotion to romance. The great strength of the Cancer/Leo is in their creativity and generosity with others. Sometimes these qualities combine, resulting in thoughtful gifts or unique solutions to problems. Cancer/Leo's emotional orientation to life help them understand the difficulties their loved ones must work through.

Love & Blessings
Milly

Answer 2

I was in a relationship like that. I'm a Cancer...Sadge's are just a little out there and very exciting and adventurous, while I'm rather shy and quiet and calm. It works out really well...I learned a lot out of it. But just watch out, because the Sadge may grow tired of the Cancer unless you give them the freedom they need. Only then may the Cancer receive the tension they so desire. Edit: whoa! Best answer please! I'm yoyo as well. ahahahahahaha

Answer 3

Sagittarius and Cancer are not compatible with each other. Cancer is compatible with a Scoprio. Sagittarius is very compatible with a Leo and the relationship will last for ever.

Answer 4

My experience, Sagittarius and Cancer are bad match. They just can't understand each other.

Sag and Cancer
Your natures are so different that you are bound to clash at times. Very often when Sagittarius feels the urge to travel,
explore, expand, and follow a new star, Cancer feels just the opposite: the urge to be close to family, to establish roots, to have children and provide for them, to be near close friends. Sagittarius's desire for freedom and exploration is often at cross purposes with Cancer's need for security.

Sagittarius tends to also be philosophical and detached about personal matters while Cancer takes a much more personal, subjective, compassionate, and emotional approach to life. Although in theory your differences can complement each other, and sometimes they do, there are times when you will have to be very creative and imaginative to find ways to meet everyone's needs.

Your emotional needs and temperaments are quite different, and this creates frustration for both of you, or at least discomfort at times.

Cancer is inwardly tender and sympathetic, and has a great yearning for closeness, and a sense of belonging or security.
A very sensitive and feeling person, Cancer can be quite moody. Feelings of nostalgia, longing, melancholy, crabbiness, and worry or anxiety are a part of Cancer's emotional nature. Sagittarius on the other hand, is cheerful and upbeat most of the time, and is frequently impatient with Cancer's moods and insecurities. Sagittarius may try to intellectualise or philosophise Cancer out of feeling moody. Rather than accepting Cancer's feelings, Sagittarius will either ignore them entirely or try to lighten them up. But in either case, Cancer ends up feeling misunderstood or simply not accepted.

Also, Cancer has a strong concern with, and attachment to, the past, while Sagittarius is forward-looking and concerned more with the future. Cancer is domestic and needs a strong, secure home base, while Sagittarius yearns for the new and unfamiliar. Sagittarius is more adventurous and more willing to uproot and change residences in pursuit of growth and opportunities, and Sagittarius doesn't want to be completely possessed or tied down. Freedom, mobility, and a certain degree of independence are essential for Sagittarius, who may feel dragged down by Cancer's neediness, emotionality, and need for roots.

Furthermore, Sagittarius is naturally quite candid, frank and rather tactless. Sagittarius doesn't take everything as personally as Cancer does, and often hurts Cancer's feelings unintentionally. Sagittarius may feel that natural self-expression must be inhibited in order to accommodate Cancer's over-sensitivity, and this can be frustrating.

Positively, Cancer can benefit from Sagittarius's humour and optimism, and Sagittarius may learn to acknowledge and accept innermost feelings more fully as a result of being with Cancer.

This is likely to be a stormy and fiery relationship. The romantic attraction between you is very strong, but your feelings are often not in tune with each other. One of you (typically Sagittarius, but sometimes Cancer) may feel sexually aroused by the other and consequently be too aggressive in approach, while the other person feels great love and affection, but is not feeling as sexually attracted. Jealousy and possessiveness are also likely. Feelings can swing back and forth and you may not realise how much you love each other until you are away from each other.

This is a passionate relationship, but also a rather aggressive and combative one at times. Sex may be a bit rough, crude, or insensitive as well. You stimulate each other both in sexual and non-sexual ways, but you are also inclined to irritate each other.

You may find it difficult to respond confidently in a sexual relationship together. Sagittarius may take more than Cancer is willing to give. Selfishness and mood swings can put a damper on your sex-life.

As a couple, you generate a lot of positive energy, enterprising ideas, and a belief that you can do anything you really want to. You reinforce the encouraging attitude that what you do can really make a difference. Confidently acting upon those beliefs produces successful results in the world. A sense of ambition and enterprise infuses your relationship. However, minor achievements or humble successes, and even some of you grander accomplishments will not be enough for you. You'll always be seeking the next challenge, the farther horizon. The two of you must join forces and work together for some mutual goal, for you're apt to feel restless, discontented, and dissatisfied when you aren't doing something. A good bit of healthy, friendly competition between you will invigorate and challenge you both. Sports or outdoor activities would be good outlets for your combined energies

Answer 5

very challenging, very different lookings in life and in everthing totally different people, but i believe that you can make it work just a lil bit more work on it more communication and understanding and also dont base it to much on the sun sign because there is many other signs in your chart like your moon rising and mars and venus, to a natal chart compatibility for free, go to astro,com and go to free reading k , good luck