2007-09-13 14:47:58 · 45 answers · asked by ? 3 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Someone once told me that when you learn all you need to know then you move on. Is that true? I know for me I move physically a lot, but, still have a fond place in my heart for people even though things, places, and interests always change. What is really weird is if you go away for a time and return and all of a sudden you feel uncomfortable around the person or are unable to talk about anything. Mmm
2007-09-13 15:01:42 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I got married at 19,and none of either of our friends had been married.We def noticed that they tended to stay away from us.Kinda like they thought we were too grown up for them,when really we were still the same ppl,just with rings on our fingers. Ive been married 3 years now and I think our friends realise that we havnt changed. I think things change alot more when you have kids.I have a toddler and it is very difficult to do the same things that friends are doing,but it doesnt mean I dont want to,its just that curcumstances have changed,not our friendships. If you have true friends in the first place,you will never want to stop seeing them and vice versa,but there is also nothing wrong with wanting to make new friends either :)
2016-05-19 00:29:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have had PLENTY of good relationships that just seem to fade with time. I still see them occasionally maybe in the shopping mall or whatever. That's life full of change. I also have a best friend of over 20 yrs. that sometimes years have gone by and we have gotten busy with our families and time has gotten away from us. We still seem to somehow manage to keep in contact and enjoy each others company when we do get to spend time together. We actually raised our kids together and was a support system for each other since the fathers bailed out of their responsibilities.
2007-09-13 14:54:44 · answer #3 · answered by Luv2no is in the house 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have friendships that developed over 50+ years ago...yeah, that old! I wouldn't say the friendships have deteriorated, but the closeness is not there anymore. We are spread all over the country - Alabama, Colorado, Texas, Kansas. I still consider them to be friends and they consider the same with me.
2007-09-13 14:54:30 · answer #4 · answered by nean 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, i have.
My freind chelsea and I used to be around eachother 24 7, but we both changed a bit. I am not a partier, and she likes getting drunk every night, and our differences ripped us apart.
Now I talk to her for about 5 to 10 mins every 4 months.
2007-09-13 15:00:53 · answer #5 · answered by Megan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Me and this one girl were best friends, but then we moved away. And now I haven't had a chance to talk to her in almost 4 years.
The thing is that you get so caught up in what's happing in your life here that it's just hard to keep a friendship going when you're so far apart. : (
2007-09-13 14:54:41 · answer #6 · answered by Popcorn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. She just didn't seem to enjoy talking to me, so we just stopped. I really miss our friendship, but I don't think it could ever be the same anymore.
2007-09-13 15:17:22 · answer #7 · answered by Corwin Shiu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, there was this guy that use to hang out with my husband and I in college and he basically stalked us, we couldn't get rid of him. Finally we graduated, and talked to him only a couple of times since.
2007-09-13 14:51:14 · answer #8 · answered by crymeariver 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep. We live about 4 hours away so that didn't help either. Our tastes and interests became different too, so there wasn't too much in common. Sad but true.
2007-09-13 14:51:10 · answer #9 · answered by coyoteugly1986 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sadly, yes. He went to private boarding school, I moved. We talk maybe once a year at best now.
2007-09-13 14:52:06 · answer #10 · answered by Sir Nigel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋