Why do I have to choose. Why is there a problem! I am not hurting anyone or trying to change anyone's mind so what gives. Why should I choose why can't I be me. Answer that!!
2007-09-13 13:28:35 · 16 answers · asked by kay b 5 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Lol, you're so lucky! You get the best of both worlds! Haha. Gay people who shun bisexuality are weird!
2007-09-13 17:05:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
I think bisexuality is fantastic. You don't have to choose. You are who you are, and who you are is beautiful. If I said I was against bisexuality to me that would be the same as saying I was against fat people or skinny people or a certain race of people or something of that sort. So no, I'm not against it. Keep living free!
2007-09-13 14:35:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think maybe some people find it difficult because they can't understand it easily: straight people understand why people are attracted to the opposite sex, gay people the same, but bisexual people are a bit different.
Also, (personal experience) some straight people seem to say they're bisexual to give themselves some kind of 'edge', when they're not and end up leading people on. This has actually happened to me twice :( and kind of puts people off the idea of dating a bisexual.
But you shouldn't have to choose...that's the same as being made to choose between blondes and brunettes and never being allowed variation!
Have fun with boys and girls :P
xx
2007-09-13 13:36:55 · answer #3 · answered by emilyomelette 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know right ...same here why must we choose im fine with being with girls and boys people are so judgemental diz dayz but yeah I feel ya gurl even know I'm out in open to some people but still ...It doesn't give people the right to be judgemental...n e way I hopen this helped I hope everything works out best 4 U
2007-09-13 14:55:21 · answer #4 · answered by Cutie T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most heterosexuals dislike it because it's still somewhat "gay" and the majority of heterosexuals still bear some intollerence towards homosexuality. Others view it as "sexual greediness", that a bisexual person is just overly promiscuous and doesn't want their sexual partners limited by gender.
Most homosexuals dislike it because they feel it's a betrayal to "true" homosexuality, that bisexual people are just ashamed to be "all the way gay" and want to keep one foot in the door of "straightness".
Both are false and wrong views. Bisexuals (like me) are simply capable of attraction towards both sexes. That's all.
2007-09-13 13:34:43 · answer #5 · answered by ZER0 C00L ••AM••VT•• 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Because bi sexuals are selfish for wanting both.
How can you love both equally when theres so much difference between us?
Because lesbians like me dont appreciate being with girls who bring everyone your bf slept with into bed with us.
Because bi sexuals are just too lazy to choose.
Because you cant just wake up in the morning and say......
Who am i going to play with today.
And finally
Because there really isnt any such thing as bi sexual.
If you sleep with members of the same sex
YOURE GAY.
Admit it to yourself and be happy
2007-09-14 05:19:23 · answer #6 · answered by andrea s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hear you man. Some people suck. They suck hard.
I get around it by having lots of bi and bi-positive friends, reading everything on bi people I can get my hands on, and yes, being the token bi chick at every political/social event. I feel like I'm better equipped to defend myself and my identity because I'm well read on the subject. I like to think I can disarm even the most ardent biphobic with an eye roll and my witty display of facts and kick-*** take-down of paradigms.
But man, sometimes people just suck and there is nothing you can do about it. Some people are just ignorant assholes, and thats just the way it goes.
2007-09-13 13:43:24 · answer #7 · answered by dani_kin 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
There is no problem. If you're attracted to both men and women, it IS okay. I'm bisexual and am blessed. Be who you are and enjoy the experiences.
2007-09-13 15:28:08 · answer #8 · answered by WildOne 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There's nothing wrong with it. You love who you love, and bisexuality opens up your options.
2007-09-13 13:58:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I just never understood people who couldn't make up their minds. You have the right to do what you want to do, so go for it.
2007-09-13 13:34:31 · answer #10 · answered by Elt 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋