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I'm so damn aggravated.... I feell like punching a wall?

I don't know what's wrong with me, I've been pretty angry lately and I cant seem to put a finger on what's wrong with me. I think its cuz i was disrespected by this guy who tried to take advantage of me but I put him in his place. but I"m just soooo ANGRY. ARGHH. I don't know what to do and its stressing me out. I cant even seem to concentrate in school. I truly hate men now. I have absolutely no respect for any of them. why do they all think that just cuz i'm a girl that I want to be a damn sexual relationship. WTF does it say easy on my forehead. I'm going to be single forever because I dont think there's hope for guys anymore. I know I"m only 20 but I feel older than I am and I dont even have alot of experiences with guys. This is just too much.

2007-09-13 12:22:03 · 26 answers · asked by . 3 in Arts & Humanities Philosophy

26 answers

Sorry for what happened to you and it's good you put that guy where he belonged. Not all guys are like that though. Hopefully in the future (when you're out of school) you'll meet someone who places respect above sex (you know us dogs at that age we can only think with the small head and the blood flow destroys all thoughts in that one haha). I call us dogs (yes I'm a guy quite a bit older than you are) because I believe that at that age most of us in the male species are. It's unfortunate that you happened to come across a horny mutt but I hope you someday change your mind about us men (remember as they age most of the dogs will change to men haha). Just forget about him and concentrate on your schooling. It'll pay off in the long run if you do well and stop stressing about something that's better left in the past. Best wishes

2007-09-13 12:33:23 · answer #1 · answered by Goofy 3 · 1 0

Take a look at how you are interacting with men to see if you are giving off some subtle message about what you want. Maybe in your head you are thinking one thing, but your behavior is giving a totally different message. I also do think there are men out there that only want this in a relationship. But, this is not all men. There are very good men out there, so don't shut the door on them. Why aren't you attracting them? Do the ones you are attracted to seem more exciting and in that they are less respectful of you?

2016-04-04 19:30:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Don't worry, it's just a rush of adraniline and chimicals and feelings. Get used to dissapointment. Use that rush for something good or try to devolop that skill. You are suffering that's good because you know that you are on the right road. The right road is ofcourse going to test you to see if you can be accepted. When you suffer you find out the most and learn the most about yourself too. I am only 14 so work with me on my spelling. Once again calm down and look forward, going through dark is only going to make you stronger. It's because you don't have a lot of experience with guys that you hate them. You just can't stop eating apples if you encounter one rotton one.

2007-09-19 10:32:11 · answer #3 · answered by tictac 1 · 0 0

Will first No one has the right to be disrespectful to you or lay their hands on you. First try to remember not all of us guys are jerks just some. But I am just asking How do you dress? Are you wearing tight clothes that give that impression? Your probably just meeting the wrong type of men. So slow down hang out with your girlfriend for a while and take a break. Go somewhere fun and do it for you.

2007-09-13 12:32:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

Yep we boys are dumb effing jerks aren't we?
Well the reason for your discontent must be your appearance. Men are visually excited more so than women. It's in our genes and it goes back for more than seventy millenniums. It is something we have control over but we have an urge to act upon our sight. Our visuals, or our own sense of aesthetics if you will.
One day some boy will see you and work very hard to romance you; which means he will pursue you without insult, and let you make the decision on whether you will take the relationship to a more intimate level.
Don't give up on us darlin, the only alternative is your own gender and in my personal opinion, that isn't much of a choice either.

2007-09-13 12:30:43 · answer #5 · answered by the old dog 7 · 1 0

Don't give yourself wrinkles over this ! Most guys are gonna try to see how far they can get, it's nothing personal. You're smarter now for the experience (and disappointed in guys in general). But, there are some good ones out there and you will meet one, especially now that you are going to see what their all about BEFORE you let them get any closer to you. Smart Girl. Enjoy your life and take it as a compliment instead of an insult, something must be pretty attractive about you I'm guessing in order for him to want to make that move to begin with. So, chin up and remember life is FULL of experiences for us to learn from.

2007-09-13 12:29:47 · answer #6 · answered by Gottaloveher 5 · 1 0

Is this an isolated incident???? Did anything else happen with anyone else???? Maybe this incident has triggered feelings you've been holding back for a while........ Maybe this is why you're still feeling angry...... I believe once you resolve these issues, you'll be better prepared to enter a positive relationship..... There are good guys out there.... just deal with the things that are troubling you first!!!! Wish you the best!!!

2007-09-13 12:38:37 · answer #7 · answered by pegs 1 · 0 0

I say get him back - that's the only way your "angry" will go away. You must resolve it - close it up. Don't have hatred though (there's too many guys like that nowadays; you'll be "arghhhh" everyday. Just find a way to put him in his place...for the meantime go do something that you haven't done in a while that you enjoy - I run....like crazy! Hope this helps a little.

2007-09-13 13:11:32 · answer #8 · answered by roxy671 1 · 0 0

Dear, slow down, now take a deep breath, let out slowly, now another,let out slowly, do this 1 more time, now say to yourself " I'm someone special, i will find someone who will treat me the way i want to be treated, he's out there and i need to be patience, i know he's out there. Every time you feel like putting your fist through a wall just do this, and relax. It works for me all the time.

2007-09-13 12:35:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

hey dont give up on guys just yet. there still a few of us left who want a real realationship. just like you some of cant find the right girl. i know its hard but knowing that theres someone out there who wants a real realationship,gives guys like me hope. some times i think girls are only with me 4 my looks. i need some thing more real.

2007-09-13 12:34:58 · answer #10 · answered by ryuamie 1 · 1 0

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