ok well im not gonns lie to you, i am only 12 years old and i have a friend who has a friend that spent the night the same night i did. so the guy is a pervert and i mentioned this in another question but i said i was 14. well truth be told i think he might have done something to me in my sleep and i have already started my first period but only one time have i had one. i cant tell my mom well im scared to but i mean that is because im 12 and i cant take a hpt. what do i do?
2007-09-13 11:20:37 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
oh and if he tryed to do anything he would not be able to get past the panties cuz ill wake up but i not know if stuff can get through that and by stuff i mean sperm.
2007-09-13 13:57:59 · update #1
im not a perverted old man i am a straight A student who has been recomended to skip 2 grades and no this is not a sick joke
2007-09-13 14:22:52 · update #2
Sweetheart, if you are only 12 and you think this guy did something to you, with out your consent, you HAVE to tell your Mum. That's rape. She will be able to help you figure out if anything really did happen. Did you drink anything that he might have been able to slip drugs into? Do you think he actually had sex with you without your knowledge? That's really hard to do unless you were drugged.
You can take a hpt, just go get one and take it. I would really hope though, that you will talk to an adult. Any one you trust. It should be your Mum, but if that feels awkward, tell a friends mother you trust, a sister, an aunt, grandmother, school teacher.,, ANY one. This was not your fault, and you shouldn't feel bad. Even if you get grounded because you weren't suppose to have boys over, it is not as bad as wondering what is happening with your body. Trust someone older to help you.
2007-09-13 11:31:17 · answer #1 · answered by Robin B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, I don't believe you are 12... 11:30pm on a school night.
Making a big deal about re-stating you are 12. And you are FAR too articulate for any 12 year old I know if "truth be told"
Perverted old man by any chance getting your kicks in the women's health section?
And there is NO WAY you slept through 'something' unless you were drunk or drugged.
2007-09-13 11:35:59 · answer #2 · answered by creviazuk 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
depends on what you think he "did". If you are implying that he had full on intercourse with you and ejaculated in you then you might want to get and HPT. buy one and take it to a friends house. you may want to go on and be honest with your mother as well at some point. Also there is a risk of disease.... which is much more of a risk than pregnancy believe it or not.
If that didn't happen and you thhink he just touched you.. i wouldnt worry about the HPT.... takes alot more to make a baby than that.. but stay away from t his creep... far far away!!
2007-09-13 11:28:36 · answer #3 · answered by just bees and things and flowers 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you would know if he done something to you in your sleep. If he had and assuming it would have been the first time for you, you would definately had felt something as it is very painful the first time. Your periods will take a while to become regular. If you are worried that you could be pregnant then get someone older who you can trust to get a test for you. if you are then you definately know that this boy done something. Then i would inform your mum and go to the police.
2007-09-13 11:30:57 · answer #4 · answered by Lisa T 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you need to be specific if your saying he had intercourse with you oviously you would have felt it. Not trying to be mean but who wouldn't know if somone was trying to have intercourse with you. You could have stopped him. And another thing is as much tired, or sleepy you are you will still fell it!!!! like you said " well truth be told i think he might have done something to me in my sleep" the only way i would believe what your saying is if you were drinking or smokin some good .............
2007-09-13 11:40:53 · answer #5 · answered by c*c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg!! i feel so bad for u and im only 13 but i think u shud get checked by a dr. and don't worry about telling yr mom worry about being preagnet during the age of 12!!!
2007-09-13 11:39:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
are you postivie about what her did to you. well just to be sure i would go and ask the perverted on and tell him to tell you the truth.
sorry bout i think you should talk to your mom. if not it might turn out to be someting bad. if it not then don't be friends wit that person, good luck
2007-09-13 12:18:53 · answer #7 · answered by skittle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What 12 year old uses phrases like truth be told? nO WAY IS THIS A GENUINE 12 YEAR OLD. tHIS IS SOME SICKOS IDEA OF EITHER A JOKE OR gOD FORBID SOMETHING FAR MORE PERVERTED
2007-09-13 11:30:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I THINK YOU SHOULD TELL YOUR MOM AND GET YOUR SELF CHECKED OUT IN CASE HE GAVE U ANY THING
AND REPORT HIM TO THE POLICE BECAUSE HE COULD OF DONE ANY THING TO YOU THAT NIGHT I BEEN THERE BEFORE
2007-09-14 06:11:54 · answer #9 · answered by jen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you know what sex is, if he put his penis in side you then there is a risk of pregnancy and sexually transmitted infection you may need to be checked out by the Dr. please try and speak to your mum she will be up set but her main concern is going to be that our OK and she will be relieved that you talked to her. xx
2007-09-13 11:27:10 · answer #10 · answered by sweetie 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋