My friend jenni already knows im a lesbian. but the problem is in the spring i wrote to her that i like her more than a friend. she just wanted to be friends. now that our new school year starts it's like she is constanly trying to avoid me now. i confronted her about it once n she denies avoiding me. then i go to one of her volleyball games. and i started to notice her glancing at me when every time they get a little breather. n one time she looked mad when she saw me checking out this one girl at one of her games. What should i do?
2007-09-13 11:15:32 · 8 answers · asked by dont_want_to_be_judge 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Maybe she is confused bout herself. Maybe give her some space and make her come to u. If she does have feelings for u which it kinda does sound that way let her come to terms with her feelings.
2007-09-13 11:34:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
your sexuality has made her wonder about herself, she's probably looking at you and trying to figure out if she likes you or not, i used to get this alot with friends when i was a at school, I'd tell them i was a lesbian, they be totally fine, then they'd act all weird, then next time i had a sleepover they'd be asking me to kiss them and confessing feelings for me. its alot to do with your age, your both teenagers and that's a time for experimenting and exploring.
ask her whats going on. confront her again after her next game, say "look you have been avoiding me, you said you were OK with everything and now your acting really strange" she'll probably say lots of things about her being busy, or having something on her mind and whatever. if she doesn't give you a proper answer then say "well if there's nothing wrong how about you come to my house after school" if she says she's busy ask her to pick when, then she can't make excuses,
it could all be nothing, but you don't know till you find out, it'll all become very clear in time, she's either not comfortable with your sexuality, or shes wondering about hers.
good luck xxx
2007-09-13 22:45:14 · answer #2 · answered by coffeetime 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seriously, the looking mad thing while you were checking out another girl.... sounds more like she's pissed that youre checking out girls period. She doesnt want you to be gay. She doesnt accept it. She doesnt want to have a relationship with you and she doesnt sound as if she wants to be friends with you any longer.
Its time to accept that your friendship with her is over. Youll find other friends... and when I say FRIENDS.. you know what they are, right? A friend is someone who accepts you... the way you are... warts and all... and does not judge you.
Good luck.
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2007-09-13 12:09:26 · answer #3 · answered by Danger OReilly 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your friend has feelings for you also but she hasn't come out of the closet yet. All you can really do is wait and see what happens with your relationship with her.
2007-09-13 11:57:35 · answer #4 · answered by Theresa B 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
i'm not gay but i don't think that matters really. i'd ask her whats going on but be prepared for her to beat around the bush. she may like you but is afraid of it or it just may not be her thing and she's afraid to tell you. what have you got to lose? ask her.
2007-09-13 11:23:13 · answer #5 · answered by racer 51 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
she doesnt want to be your friend
you need to accept that
she doesnt know or want to accept your sexuality
you will encounter than in life.
love yourself
good luck
2007-09-13 11:22:01 · answer #6 · answered by friskygimp 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
she likes you.ahe just isn't ready to start a relationship with you(yet).
2007-09-13 12:29:31 · answer #7 · answered by domenicathesims2player 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Ignore her, and ignore all other women while you're at it.
2007-09-13 11:38:51 · answer #8 · answered by dweebken 5 · 0⤊ 3⤋