Why do black guys have a bad impression on black girl..like they are say they are too loud and ghetto..And i am not like that.. I am educated smart and beautiful..But everyguy i like say they prefer hispanic or white girl...whats up with this.. are the other ppl going to leave the black gurls single?? who are we going to go with?
2007-09-13 10:15:12 · 18 answers · asked by ? 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
Do what I do, date white guys. . . .
Black men love to project what they are on us. They say we are loud & ghetto, who is in jail, on the corner, an uneducated, black men! So to me it's them projecting the negative traits on us! They make children & don't take care of them (irresponsible) and blame why they can't get ahead on the white man, everything that is wrong with thier lives is always our faults or the white man's faults never their lack of initiative, laziness, & lack of planning. So I always find it funny when black men say so many negative things about black women & say that black women are ghetto. According to the U.S. Census Bureau 70% of all welfare recipients are white women, now who is really ghetto in this scenario? Do you notice that whenever you see a black man with a white woman (w/ the exception of celebrities) or a non-black woman that woman is ALMOST always in a degradated state? Do you notice how they seem to bring down whatever race they attach themselves to? I mean most of the white girls at my job are with black men or latino men and they all are doing much worst than before. They credit is horrible, or the guy is beating on them or cheating on them. It is horrible. I have always dated white man, not because of the above stated but because that is what I am attracted to. But you want ask who are you going to go with? I say date outside your race, why wait on someone who clearly is not waiting on you!
2007-09-13 15:02:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
Well it is because most black guys don't notice girls like you, because you are quiet. It is the loud, evil ghetto types who get all of the attention, or negative attention. It's not like they are loud and cute, they are ugly and fat. total turn off.
On a side note, Whites and Hispanics have their own version of loud and ignorant folks, but for some reason finding the ones who are quiet and smart are much easier.
2013-10-14 12:11:49 · answer #2 · answered by Master's Public 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a black girl and I'm very attracted to black guys who look like Lenny Kravtitz, Maxwell the singer, or Eric Benet. I'm attracted to white guys who look like Jude Law, Paul Walker, Johnny Depp, and the younger version of Brad Pitt. I am just attracted to really pretty boys with down to earth personalities race doesn't matter.
2016-05-18 22:49:56 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know why they say stupid stuff like we're all loud and ghetto. Not only do they say it among their selves but they tell other guys of all races as though they're trying to make us stay alone. How would they like it if we told everyone they were all in a gang, rapist, future convicts, druggies, and murderers? I bet they wouldn't like it. They don't mind doing that stuff to us though. If we didn't stand up for them nobody would so they better stop taking advantage of us.
2007-09-13 14:05:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
At what point is someone black? If my great great great great great great great great great great ancestor was black, does that mean I'm black?
Most of Halle Berry's ancestors were white, but she is 'black'. So is Maria Carry's from what I've read. How far back does it go?
My great great great great great great great great great great ancestor came from Africa, so am I black? Can I answer this?
Not long ago, I was talking to a young lady, who was born in the US. Her parents came from Ethiopia, and she was as black as they come. She said to me, that everyone kept telling her that she had to act a specific way, because she was black, and because of the way the 'Americans' had treated her ancestors (although not all 'Americans' would have treated her ancestors in the way they said they would have treated her). But she said that no, her ancestors were not treated that way, and that she never was treated badly, except by Black Men.
Go with who ever treats you nice. There are plenty of men who will, black, white, Asian, Asiatic, Middle Eastern,. whoever. Don't let your life be defined by one set of humanity, be yourself and let whoever, from what ever, love you for what and who you are.
A human being.
2007-09-14 18:49:34 · answer #5 · answered by whatotherway 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
They are ignorant, they dont want people not to date them b/c of the dumb Black guys that make them look bad and the stereotypes etc. but they do the same to us.
The Black guys in the U.K are NOT like that!! They're awesome!!
My bf is from Italy though, he moved here about 3 or 4 years ago! Hes not dumb like SOOO many of the guys in the U.S.
2007-09-13 10:19:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
I'm not a black guy, lol.
you don't go out too much, lol. *geez*
I'm not loud/ghetto, no way! (i'm shy/quiet and i like it that way, lol)
But uh today my friend and i were like at the park and these two guys were trying to get our attention.(it didn't work, lol. ahahahaha!) The guys were Asian and white. (i'm black and my friend was asian.)
so........i don't know what you're talking about.
and you must like the wrong type of guys, no offense. (you know from them to say that to you.)
go to the mall some more!!!!
or movies!
or somewhere public and very diverse!
It's easy!
or your school. (my school is diverse!)
2007-09-13 11:34:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do you really want to be with a guy that is going to be racist to you even though he is the same race as you? There are plenty of men out there who will see you for who you are and not by a preconceived idea of who you are from the color of your skin.
2007-09-13 10:22:51 · answer #8 · answered by JonW 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Look for someone in a different races. Do not just look for Black People.
2007-09-13 10:24:23 · answer #9 · answered by hueco cuervo 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I ideally would like a black gf although it seems like the white girls more aggressivley hit on me.
2007-09-14 09:59:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋