I want to be able to start over my life. I want to be a new person -- a good person. I want to take care of myself. I want to show another side of who I REALLY am. I'm tired of posing myself as something I'm not. I've already lied to so many people. I feel like I can't reverse what I've done. I need some advice. I can't do this alone. Please, send some support. Tell me what I should do to pick up the pieces of my heart and put it together.
I used to be a "ghetto" person. Someone who curses a lot.
I WANT to be someone everyone will like. (Any suggestions?)
Do you like someone who thinks they can beat up anybody they want or someone who gets along with everybody?
I just want to STOP LYING!
Please, leave suggestions to how I can have a healthy start. :'(
P.S. NO RUDE COMMENTS! (I know what I've done is stupid, but all I want is just support!)
2007-09-13 10:14:18 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
By the way, I'm 13. So I can't exactly move anywhere. D=
2007-09-13 10:21:38 · update #1
Hi! It is impossible to be somebody everybody likes, but it is possible to be a person who loves herself. That is the first thing you should do. Forget about all those people around you, focus on your own life and the things you want to achieve in your life. Explore things that you really like that do not involve hanging out with these people. Do you have any dreams or secret wishes? Go after them! Nobody can stop you from doing that. Only you can stop yourself from doing that. Be your own best friend first, and once you do that you will attract different kind of people, the ones who respect you for who you really are. Good luck!
2007-09-13 10:58:58 · answer #1 · answered by n z 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Today is the first day of the rest of your life. Just from what you said you have a conscious and you care about your future. Without attempting to preach at you I suggest you seek to know who God really is. There you will find the source of all morality and goodness and it appears that is what you are after. Best to you.
2007-09-13 10:25:14 · answer #2 · answered by mikearion 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not everyone will like you no matter what you do so don't strive for that. First of all, start telling the truth and second of all don't curse a lot. And try making new friends as yourself, not a persona you created.
2007-09-13 10:23:08 · answer #3 · answered by Aloofly Goofy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In order to truly start over, you need to move to another city or state. Start over. Be nice. Change your old ways. You can do it.
2007-09-13 10:20:34 · answer #4 · answered by nonails 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your young so its not hard to start over.... just be yourself!!!! people will appreciate you more... and you will be ALOT happier..... dont try to fit in so much.... just do what you want and be how u are... then people will truely see you and will ACTUALLY want to be friends with you. <3
your still finding out who you are... so u still have time to mold your character
2007-09-13 10:25:19 · answer #5 · answered by cus i forgot my name...? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its easier said than done,jus try n b a nice person
2007-09-13 10:30:27 · answer #6 · answered by tasty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋