who is STILL married a year later, by the way. I just want to go on with my life but he keeps bringing me to court ( and he keeps losing). He left ME. Shouldn't I be the angry one?
What is this about?
Maybe I should post this on the psychology board.
2007-09-13 09:48:09 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Maybe he has come to the realization that the grass wasn't greener on the other side. And this is his attempt at maintaining some sort of contact with you. And his anger is really at himself, for ruining the relationship.
Who knows?? When it comes to affairs of the heart, it is truly one big mystery!!
2007-09-13 10:00:59 · answer #1 · answered by young, black & gifted 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Didn't you know you were SUPPOSE to be misrable without him... hee hheeee.....Nice to know I'm not alone,my ex is the same way and it's been a 1 and a 1/2. You know why, You don't know what you have until you lose it. He's miserable about events in his life and is trying to drag you in it. Misery loves company. He lost you and keep's losing in court, sounds like he's a LOSER over and over..... He's also probably mad because you can't turn a trick into a treat- It's only Halloween 1 day out of the year! LOL When he pull's this I just listen to this song makes me feel better- try it!!!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HZyTOROlo9E (Lily Allen-Smile)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cievKjy_g7Q (Beyonce-Irreplacable)
The last time we went to court I told the judge that I felt the ex was being frevilious, petty, and harrassing. and I was mentally exhausted from him, and spending the day in court. The judge made our case - FINAL AND PERMENANT, it can't be brought back to court without EXTREME cause. Talk to a lawer about harrassment. Good Luck, and Best Wishes!
2007-09-13 10:22:13 · answer #2 · answered by Day Dreamin' in Cali'! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll wager your husband, sorry excuse for a man that he is, is angry with the entire world right now. Face it, he left you for something he is not likely to get, that woman is playing him.
I wouldn't be angry with the idiot, I'd have a hard time not laughing in his face. He's pathetic.
2007-09-13 09:56:12 · answer #3 · answered by essentiallysolo 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Umm... probably because his little fantasy of how his life was going to be didn't work out for him. Have you let the other womans husband know about the affair? I also guess your ex expected you to take the divorce quietly and you sued his @ss for support and won. Good for you.
2007-09-13 09:55:52 · answer #4 · answered by mommeof3 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Because you've moved on, your (probably) happy and doing well enough, and because he keeps losing. He feels stupid and this is his way to react.
He's childish and immature and probably not getting what he thought he would out of his relations with this other person.
She probably is still married to her husband.
Ask your lawyer (if you have one) if there's anyway to stop the harassment.
2007-09-13 09:57:47 · answer #5 · answered by Kissa M 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
He's angry because he made a bad choice and now has to live with it, and thinks it's your fault because you didn't try to get him back, so he could get out of it.
So now he's trying to make you as miserable as he is.
2007-09-13 10:01:25 · answer #6 · answered by Amy Beware 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Somehow, he blames you. Think back. Didn't he try to make you the reason for practically everything that went wrong? C. :)!!
2007-09-13 10:21:44 · answer #7 · answered by Charlie Kicksass 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the guy has problems. nuff said
2007-09-13 09:59:11 · answer #8 · answered by Richard L 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋