I just recently had an abortion and before hand I was looking on here for other peoples experinces and how it turned out.
a) using profanity and telling people you are going to burn in hell, well if you really want people to not choose abortion you catch more flies with honey!
b)do you really think blasting people who have ALREADY HAD an abortion will make them go get the featus and stick it back in them (heads up if you really do, it dosen't work that way)
c)I have also had a full term pregnacy that almost killed me (before my abortion) that I gave up for adoption. Adoption his harder emotionally because you will always know the kid is out there and could die and you not know. You don't know all the facts and if these people's abortions are medically nesscary and don't tell people to do adoption untill all the orphans who are too old, too fat or didn't match the family's funiture that don't ever get adopted find homes.
GET OVER YOURSELVES
2007-09-13 09:08:56 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Which one of you had sex with me knows there was no protection used?
Who knows the time frames between the pregnacies?
Who read the "almost killed me" part and rather 2 people die instead of one?
If I'm narrow minded being that I have experinced both side abortion and adoption please inculde which of the 2 you have gone through.
I will have to say yes, not all pro-life people are nut job and I'm sorry to those who do not post mean sprirted messages.
YES EVERYONE IS ENTITTLED TO THEIR OWN OPINION BUT THE QUESTION IS "DO YOU THINK IS CONSTRUCTIVE TO POST YOUR NEGATIVE VIEWS ESPECIALLY FOR QUESTION RELATED TO AFTER AN ABORTION!"
2007-09-13 10:29:43 · update #1
I swear people are so insensitive! I agree that the pro-life people are absolutely obnoxious with their rude comments! Whats done is done and you made the best decision for yourself. Its a hard decision, no matter what choice you make you have to live with it..and there will always be regrets. I totally believe that giving your child up for adoption has to be so hard. Im sorry that everyone was so rude to you!
2007-09-13 09:18:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 9⤋
I think some people can be a bit harsh,but I don't think that by you slamming the, it makes you any better!! That's the pot calling the kettle black isn't it?? If you do have a medical condition that prevents you from carrying a pregnancy to term, then don't you think you might need to invest in some birth control?? That is usually pretty effective, there are places you can get it for free if money is an issue!! And why does it matter if you give a baby up for adoption and it dies, your killing one by having an abortion anyway!! Next time at least have you end of the argument make sense!! And just for the record, I don't have really strong feeling either way, I just think you should have thought about what you were saying before you posted this!!!
2007-09-13 16:24:23 · answer #2 · answered by Danielle C 2 · 4⤊ 1⤋
I TOTALLY, 110% agree with you. Whenever someone mentions abortion seriously (sorry, but the trolls on here don't count as serious questions), so many people on here start saying, "Go to Hell" or "You shouldn't be killing innocent babies; give it up for adoption." Yes, I am prolife, but some people take it one step (maybe more) as to degrade the mother for making a CHOICE. You should be answering the question, not putting the mother down for choosing to terminate her pregnancy. Yes, I believe that all children should be given a chance, but the point of answers is to try and help someone. If they ask how an abortion is done, answer the question with how an abortion goes.
Everyone is entitled to their opinions, but it only goes so far. Yahoo! Answers is bad enough with the Trolls! You guys need to just CHILL out!!!!
2007-09-13 17:51:18 · answer #3 · answered by Jaci ♥ 's ♫ 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Please don't group all pro-life people together as if they all act the same. I happen to be pro-life but wouldn't tell someone they are going to burn in hell for an abortion and would try to have compassion for people who have already had abortions rather than try to make them feel worse.
Your posting of this little rant and the "get over yourselves" thing at the end shows that you are just as narrow-minded as the people you are insulting.
And the fact that you think that just because adoption was harder for you than abortion means that the same is true for everyone shows that you probably need to get over yourself too. Not everyone has the same experiences you have. Some women really do regret abortions with every ounce of their being, and some women really are happy to know that their babies are alive - even if they don't know what they are doing.
Anyway, this qualifies as a "rant" and is against Yahoo rules, so be prepared for it to get taken down.
2007-09-13 16:18:53 · answer #4 · answered by Mrs.P 6 · 8⤊ 2⤋
Please read this back to yourself.....I am sorry some people are so judgmental when they are trying to get their view across. But, you need to know that abortion is not a form of birth control!!! You need to think about why you keep getting pregnant if you do not want to be. By the way---Giving a baby up for adoption is a noble & brave thing to do! Someday you will reflect on this and hopefully you will be a better frame (mature) of mind.
2007-09-13 16:47:41 · answer #5 · answered by kymmy_kins 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Some People, And I Speak On My Opinion/Views As Well, Truly Believe That Abortion Is Murder. It's Extrememly Irritating To Know Women Get Them When It Could Have EASILY Been Prevented In The 1st Place. As For You, 2 Unwanted Pregnancies So Far, 1 Adoption, 1 Abortion. You Should Have Gotten The Picture After Your 1st Pregnancy, But You Made The Same Mistake Again. Get On The Pill And Use A Condom And Pull Out. Be Smart.
2007-09-13 16:21:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 8⤊ 5⤋
Nobody has the right to cuss at you or tell you to burn in hell.
You, however, also need all the facts. Not everyone who gets pregnant can handle having an abortion. I am of the belief that abortion should not be used as birth control... It wasn't meant to be used as such and is morally wrong ( in my opinion) As far as I am concerned, it is murder.
God gave you a life to care for and you discard it as though it were just an inconvenience (generally speaking- not you specifically. ) and as this is an open forum, we have a right to voice our opinion just as you do!
2007-09-13 16:27:06 · answer #7 · answered by Deb 3 · 4⤊ 2⤋
i agree. i had to have one for medical reasons & it makes me mad that people call me a baby killer. i had no choice, either die & let the baby die with me, or get an abortion, and live to have this baby i'm currently pregnant with.
some people are just judgemental self-righteous nitwits.
(btw, i got called a murderer for going into planned parenthood long before i had the abortion, when i was going in for a pregnancy test!)
oh yes, and it's nice that they always assume that no protection was used!! hellooo... no birth control is 100% effective. condoms break, pill fails. it HAPPENS!!
2007-09-13 16:37:57 · answer #8 · answered by Ember Halo 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
I'm totally pro-life but I would not be mean about it I just try to help them see that baby's are blessings from god. I understand if you have health issues but I believe that everyone/thing should have a chance at life. They are not unwanted but just unexpected blessings from God. And if the woman was raped that don't make the baby any less of a person then me and you.
2007-09-13 19:39:02 · answer #9 · answered by Pro Life 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You have a right to feel this way. People have a right to their own opinion, but they don't have the right to try and press it on a person that hasn't asked for it. It's rude and insensitive and obnoxious. Most especially in this situation.
And for those of you judging this lady, somewhere in the Bible it talks about "judge not...lest ye be judged..." and there's also something about walking in another man's shoes...
2007-09-13 16:24:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
I can understand what you are feeling. I am a pro life, but I realize that some things happen. Plus who am I to judge you? Though not all pro-life people are like what you discribe. Alot of us are non judgemental.
2007-09-13 16:21:18 · answer #11 · answered by Gigglesalot 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋