to someone else? Just a crush... I would never cheat. Just thinking of my boyfriend having a crush on someone else breaks my heart. But, I can't help it. I have a crush on someone. AAAHHH!!!
2007-09-13 08:47:59 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You will always have crushes. They are a normal part of life. It is what you do (or more important what you don't do) with them that matter. I'm sorry to break it to you, but your boyfriend/fiance/husband will have them too.
2007-09-13 08:55:18 · answer #1 · answered by Brent 6 · 2⤊ 3⤋
Well, then maby you should rethink your engagement.
If you are crushing pretty hard on this guy and it is eating away at you, then pretty soon your boyfriend will start sensing that something is wrong. And he will start asking you questions, and the more he asks, then more than likely the truth will come out.
Be honest with yourself, you are engaged, you are not married, but you love your fiance, a crush is different than love, I think you should rethink how you feel about both men before you get married.
If you really are crushing hard on this guy, you are falling for him, and if you love your fiance, you have to make sure that you will be honest and true to him now and after you are married.
If you are not sure that you will be faithfull to your fiance, then maby you should rethink your engagement.
2007-09-13 08:57:39 · answer #2 · answered by carriegreen13 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just because you are with someone else does not mean that you won't develop crushes on other people. That is a human quality. You cannot simply shut off your emotions simply because you are engaged to another man. You should feel guilty about this. There is a major difference between having a crush on somebody and acting on that crush.
2007-09-13 08:53:13 · answer #3 · answered by SuziChi 3 · 2⤊ 4⤋
I don't think so... AS long as you take no action on it.
Everyone will look,whether you're dating, engaged, married whatever - it's human nature. And crushes are usually just that - a simple crush that will never get anywhere... and you have control over this. Maybe if it bothers you that much you should tell your Fiance that you're kinda crushing on someone and it's freaking you out...
2007-09-13 08:56:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 3⤋
Crushes are a normal part of life. You are in a relationship not blind or dead. It is what you do with those crushes that are important.
I have a long standing crush on Hugh Jackman. Does that mean I love my husband less? No. Does it mean that I will be unfaithful? Certainly not!
2007-09-13 08:57:52 · answer #5 · answered by Poppet 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
lol even if ur engaged doesn't mean u could see someone and not like... but if u act upon it then that is where u'll go wrong.. a crush could come out of physical appearance only but a true relationship take time, committment to build.. i wouldn't risk that.. lol have all the crushes u want and u can even tell ur fiance but tell him in a way that means he is the only right one for u
2007-09-13 08:54:00 · answer #6 · answered by striker 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Are you sure you're ready to commit to your fiance? If you "can't help" having a crush on someone else, your boyfriend deserves better and you should let him go so he can find someone who will focus on their relationship with him, not have crushes on someone else.
2007-09-13 08:53:43 · answer #7 · answered by missingora 7 · 2⤊ 3⤋
If you have a crush, maybe you should seriously look into your feelings for your fiance. Doesn't seem like you are too serious if you have feelings for someone else.
2007-09-13 09:00:27 · answer #8 · answered by Deb 3 · 1⤊ 3⤋
If you are having feelings like that for another do not get married. You are not ready to settle down yet, and your heart is not totally committed to your fiancee. Do some serious soul searching and discover exactly what it is you do want.
2007-09-13 08:53:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
Its natural, dont worry about it. Having a simple crush is part of all relationships. You might even meet someone who you feel blows you away, but these temptations we have to avoid.
It would be great if you and your boyfriend can openly share harmless crushes and get a good laugh out of it.
2007-09-13 08:52:38 · answer #10 · answered by Celebrate 4 · 4⤊ 4⤋