I am a gay man and I have the worst time in the world telling if another man is gay or not. HELP! lol
2007-09-13 08:23:36 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
engage in conversation... eventually you can wind your way around to gay-ish topics... "will and grace"... "equality"... if a guy knows YOU'RE gay... and he's interested... he'll be in the passenger seat pretty easily... if not... move on down the line...
2007-09-13 08:29:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh don't worry about telling if someone else is gay or not. Don't try too hard, though. Gaydar can be deceptive at times. Just let the other person open up to you in normal course of conversation.
2007-09-13 08:30:05 · answer #2 · answered by Gaymes Last Orchestra 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well generally if he's humping another bloke that is a big clue.
Or alternatively keeps moaning on about "coming out". It does get such a bore.
Who cares if you are gay, straight, homosexual, bi, bi-curious. Just get on with it.
P.S. Also if they cry during bambi...
2007-09-13 08:31:21 · answer #3 · answered by metwou2002 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, the only way I've ever been able to actually "Know" is if they tell me...or if I catch them in bed with another guy...but he could still be bisexual...so, no, I'm no help. Sorry.
2007-09-13 08:30:35 · answer #4 · answered by DEATH 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way to know 100% is by asking him. Done in the proper way it is not offensive to most people.
2007-09-13 08:31:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i can tell by the way they dress for one thing. they all love bright lively colors like polka dots and orange. some even wear purple and they walk in little mincing steps when they slip do their act "normal."
2007-09-13 19:04:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could try a need to know basis. only ask if you feel sexually towards him. or you could try my personal approach: gay untill proven otherwise. i make everyone come out gay straight or otherwise.
2007-09-13 08:29:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he takes it up the butt , hes gay .
2007-09-13 14:35:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
some of them are queeny, others are hard to tell lol.
2007-09-13 08:34:50 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2007-09-13 08:30:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋