i mean seriously every night? i would understand once in a while. we have intercourse every night and he still dreams about it every night and i wonder who he is dreaming about cus i know he is not dreaming about me everytime. i get jelous but he says he dont remember his dreams but i hear him moaning so i wake him up. i feel insecure cause of it. what do u think?
2007-09-13 07:34:40 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Give him something to sleep good about every night. He can't control his unconcious mind/ thoughts. Some can control dreams, but mostly it is the mind clearing and processing all the clutter.
Don't be insecure......just give him something to put a smile on his face every night......and though he may not be able to control his dreams at night.....it'll guarantee that it's YOU he is DAYDREAMING about when he's away and awake!
2007-09-13 07:46:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is said that sex dreams aren't about sex at all. Look up dream meanings. Don't get upset. He can't help it. That probably means that something else is bothering him subconsciously. Perhaps he has problems interracting with other people. It comes out in the dreams in the form of sex. It is no big deal. If it happened to you, and you know you can't help it, how would you feel if he was getting mad at you. Plus, when people moan at night they might not even be dreaming about sex. People do that because they are in a deep sleep state and are dreaming about talking.
2007-09-13 07:50:50 · answer #2 · answered by StephiPets 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have almost never had sex dreams but I know of one fellow who messes his sheets almost every night whether he gets some or not.
He can't control his dreams and so you're way out of line being upset by them.
Moaning might not be because he's dreaming of sex. It could be some other dream or it could be that he makes moaning sounds that are totally unrelated to dreaming. I know of someone who makes sounds that sound like intense arguing when he sleeps but he doesn't remember any dream if he gets woken up.
2007-09-13 07:48:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are not going to stop your husband's dreams. The important thing here is your insecurity. Your security or insecurity does not come from your husband, or anyone else. It comes from within you. I'll bet there are some areas of your life (which might include body, mind, soul) that bother you. Focus on being the woman YOU want to be and you will find yourself feeling much better about the situation.
2007-09-13 08:03:02 · answer #4 · answered by Brent 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you know he isn't dreaming about you? (and if he isn't, fantasies are a natural part of life) How do you know that his moaning means it is about sex? And gee .... what is wrong with thinking about sex every day? He has sex with you every day, so doubtful he needs to go out on the side. Some folks out there NEVER get it! Be thankful that you do!
2007-09-13 07:48:21 · answer #5 · answered by squidsgirl97 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
he's dreaming about sex because ,well i don't now how your guys relationship is ,but hes dreaming about sex because there is this hidden desire that he has and wants to fulfill so his sub mind is thinking about it after he's done and falls a sleep. Some time when you have intercourse does it seem he's a little distant or he's spacing off even if its just for a bit? If he does then there is something he wants or needs more like it and he doesn't want to ask . Do you guys play many ways in bed or just a certain way ? Plus just ask him. hey and have fun in bed gosh you married rock the hell out if your sheets and pop abed coil.Trust me me and my wife know.
2007-09-13 08:05:01 · answer #6 · answered by bear 56 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think it's probably normal. I have a really strong sex drive and I dream about sex alot, probably 5 or 6 times a week. Sometimes with my husband, sometimes not. He can't control his dreams.
Have you asked him who he dreams about?
I know that alot of times things I've done during the day influence my dreams... Maybe he's dreaming about having had sex with you!!
2007-09-13 07:54:01 · answer #7 · answered by melissa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sad to say , that men do dream alot about sex , not only dream but think about it all the time ,I had the same probluem , My husband Dreams about sex alot also, I can tell because moaning ..and other things ... But Anyways ..Just remember its Just a dream , not Real ,and hey you are getting it every night , that great .. means he wants ya . so relax enjoy your Man .. and his desire for sex ... its normal !
2007-09-13 07:53:06 · answer #8 · answered by della 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perfectly normal, and getting upset because another woman might feature in his dreams is unfair of you. You married a highly-sexed man, is all, and you should get used to that fact. If he has sex with you every night, then you have nothing to feel insecure about. Relax, let him have his dreams in private, and worry about something else.
2007-09-13 07:52:24 · answer #9 · answered by terry m 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just because he is moaning doesn't mean he is dreaming about sex. Grow up. If he can't remember, then I think you are making an issue out of nothing. It's your own insecurities, it has nothing to do with him, so stop nagging him about it.
2007-09-13 07:50:18 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋