A lot of women seem concerned so lets see if I can help..Why do men watch porn-Simple we like it, most men do,I'm not saying it's right or wrong it's just the way it is...Why do we like it-simple it's fantasy for us,just brain candy...Do we feel less about our mates when we watchit-NO!! again it's fantasy..
Why would we watch it if you are willing to take care of us-Simple we want you to watch it with us..In our mind we think that you will see things on the screen get excited and want to do it to..I know silly, but as I said I'm just trying to tell you the truth I never said it made sence...Know assuming you are open and honest about sex and enjoy it, your sex life should not suffer from it..You need to make him talk to you and ask the tuff questions//Your sex life should not suffer because of a video...Lets face it some porn is wrong.
2007-09-13 07:25:36 · 20 answers · asked by Bill 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I watch porn and have no problem with it.
2007-09-13 07:31:59 · answer #1 · answered by Simply Lovely 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I see where you are coming from, but you don't understand what kind of impact a man watching porn can have on a woman. I feel that it isn't so much the sex part that women don't like, but that their man is looking at another woman naked and using this stimulation to get off. To some women it seems like a man who looks at other women isn't completely satisfied with what he already has. (Whether or not it is true, I'm just telling you what some women are thinking)
Like I tell my boyfriend, I don't have to look at naked or half naked men who are muscular and drop dead gorgeous. Reason: I already have the man that I want and no other man can make me feel, get turned on or pleasure me like he does. So why waste my time on people I will never meet. Sure, I might admire a man for looking good, but I'm not going to want to watch him have sex with someone or imagine being with him.
Yes, I have tried watching porn and it doesn't turn me on. I make fun of it because it is so stupid and fake. Sure they are getting off, but it isn't for anything other than the paycheck they are receiving. How is it a fantasy? Its not like everything that happens in porn is totally unbelievable, or something that could never happen in a real-life relationship.
Plus whenever my boyfriend does look at any porn it is usually when I am gone for a few days or when he is home alone. He knows I don't care for it and is nice enough to indulge himself when I'm not around so as to prevent arguments.
Besides, men went without porn for hundreds of years and it showed in the number of children the family had. Its not a necessity, its an obsession. It could be possible that if men quit watching their "fantasy" so much they might be getting the real deal more often.
2007-09-13 08:00:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Judaism, Christianity get their roots from the Jewish people. Its not that I don't respect other people, it their beliefs that I don't agree with. Having said that, in addition to Judaism, I feel that Buddhist are some of the nicest people. I haven't met one I didn't like. However, that doesn't mean I agree with them, nor will being nice and honorable save them. There are also many different religions and/or non-religions that do do charitable acts and are great people, as it pertains to earth, but again, this won't save them. The beliefs I can not respect, the people I can as it pertains to earthly standards. It is non-negotiable, there is only one way to eternal salvation, Jesus. Having said all the above, might I point out that there are many denominations of Christianity that I also do not respect and believe. It is best to just have a personal relationship with Jesus than to claim a denomination. I am a Christian because I strive to be, as is the meaning of Christian, Christ Like.
2016-05-18 21:49:13 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree with you. i am a female and i watch porn. i'm the one who turned my hubby onto it. i have told many women that watching porn has nothing to do with the way that they feel about them and that they don't want the girls in the videos. it's all about the fantasy, but some women just don't understand that and don't want to either.
2007-09-13 07:33:26 · answer #4 · answered by redpeach_mi 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
yeah well my man watches porn lies about it even when i go to his computer 1 hour after hes been on it and seen he has been looking. i dont mind, i do mind the lieing and he wont watch it with me. he keeps it to himself and lies, and is now deleting because he thinks im stupid and i dont know where to look. i get real turend in knowing my man is at home while im at work watching porn and jacking off but he always lies and that ruins it for me. but why does he have to watch it when im right upstairs or when he thinks im asleep on the couch next to his computer. then uses the shower down stairs to "take care of it" why not just come **** me any way he wants to
2007-09-13 08:31:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Porn plays a vital and essential role in all male sexuality, and being against porn is the functional equivalent of being against male sexuality. All human cultures indulge in porn, to one extent or another, and "female" porn equivalents, romance novels and soap operas, fulfill the same need in women, albeit a little less graphically. So get over it, ladies. Telling your man he can have porn and masturbate, regardless of the state of your sex life, is the metaphorical equivalent of cutting his balls off. If you feel that strongly about it, then go ahead and just divorce him so he can find a sane, sexually positive woman instead of torturing himself with you.
2007-09-13 07:52:26 · answer #6 · answered by terry m 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Speak for yourself. I am a man and I disagree with you when you say, "We want you to watch it with us." Sure it's fine once in awhile to watch it with my wife, but sex with a live person is so much more exciting than masturbation that we usually end up ignoring it the porn movie playing on the TV. I mostly like to look at porn when I'm at home but my wife is at work. She's not there with me, so it gives me something fun to do.
2007-09-13 07:36:41 · answer #7 · answered by Happy-2 5 · 0⤊ 3⤋
hey william explain it to them like this ..ladies you know how you have fantasies bout prince charming and the perfect life well then men have fantasies with porn...lol
2007-09-13 19:37:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do like it, but when my husband and I got together there was big problems. And then this on top of it was really bad. And before I read this I really never understood some of it. So thank you
2007-09-13 07:34:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ladies, it doesn't have to be overtly disgusting. Watch it with your men, and don't be shy about it. It's your private time with your guy, so you shouldn't feel ashamed. What goes on behind closed doors is your business. Give it a try; you might like it.
2007-09-13 07:34:12 · answer #10 · answered by ron-D 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋