PLEASE LET ME KNOW.AND THIS IS SERIOUS
2007-09-13 05:03:41 · 19 answers · asked by little rose 3 in Health ➔ Men's Health
ane he's in his early 20s not a teen.what can i do to stop it?
2007-09-13 05:27:08 · update #1
he stops 2 try and make it last.trying to slow down made it worse.he came in 2 secs :(
2007-09-13 05:34:40 · update #2
10 seconds,,,that is quick,,must be a record,,,i thought 15 minutes was quick for me
2007-09-13 06:04:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
He may not be a teen but how experienced is he?
It's quite difficult to prevent yourself coming too soon when it's such a novel and erotic experience. My wife wasn't terribly adventurous soon after we got married (she's even worse now) and I spent quite a while persuading her to do it doggy fashion.
I was so worked up I came before I even touched her with it, although, with the exception of that time, I've never come within a few seconds but that might be because you're more enticing than my wife ever was.
Give him time, and be a bit patient otherwise he'll get such a phobia about it he'll never get over it and may go off of it all together.
2007-09-13 13:07:32 · answer #2 · answered by tomsp10 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The correct term is premature ejaculation. The cause is psychological where on the other extreme you have men who have difficulty reaching orgasm if at all. All healthy men are capable of ejaculation in ten seconds flat but exercises self control to ensure maximum enjoyment for themselves and their partner. However some men can find this self control difficult to achieve and as I said it's roots lie in some emotional problem. And it's a vicious circle- the more the guy tries to take things easy the worse it can get. He'll see himself as a failure - a bad lover. Look for low self esteem. Counselling is best in long term problems of this kind. I am talking about grown men here with this problem not teenagers - teenage boys will go through a phase where they'll ejaculate right - left - and centre. that is a normal process of growing up.
2007-09-13 12:22:16 · answer #3 · answered by Scarlet 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
How can you be satisfied in 10 seconds he is so quick for me it take 1 1/2 - 2 hours with multiple orgsms of my girl and some times I feel that I am so fast
2007-09-17 08:54:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mostly the cause of PE at young age is due to lack of confidence/doubt regarding ability to satisfy women.First thing is to remove fear regarding sex.Anxiety kills sex.Condoms help to some extent.Councelling will do.Next is trying one herbal medicine"CONFIDO" manufactured by Himalaya Drug House.Vitamin b complex will be helpful.Prostate problems may have to be checked.Normally sex lasts from 2 to 7 minutes .
2007-09-14 05:10:23 · answer #5 · answered by leowin1948 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is probably trying very hard not to and in his effort he is paying to much attention to the act of having sex rather than enjoying it. He will get better but if you pressure him or rag on him about it he will not be able to please you properly. Try jerking him off once before you have sex, the more times a guy has sex the longer he will last if needed jack him off or blow him a few times before sex
2007-09-13 13:06:15 · answer #6 · answered by Big Deall 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they are a virgin or haven't experienced the pleasure too often, this is a common issue. The more they do it, the longer they will last. Sometimes, it just feels to good to go any longer. Some say masterbation will help, but the feeling of the hand is no match for the feeling of the pink glove :)
2007-09-13 12:12:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
There can be many different reasons; nerves, over-excitement, inexperience... all can cause premature ejaculation. Its usually all in the mind, but very occasionally its physical. Without knowing the specifics, its difficult to say for sure. Maybe you are just so devastatingly georgeous that he just cant help himself!
2007-09-13 12:31:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's primeval. When humans first evolved there were wild animals like sabre tooth tigers roaming around - very vicious predators.
Men had to be quick to avoid coming and going at the same time - and old habits die hard.
2007-09-13 12:10:59 · answer #9 · answered by Nexus6 6 · 4⤊ 2⤋
My girlfriend is so gorgous that i often shoot my load prematurely, even before i'm actually in!!. She loves it, especially as i carry on afterwards for hours, cummin' loads of times. We've been together for 12 yrs and are always at it.
2007-09-14 11:12:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋