we want my daughter back 2 us.she cont survive with that type of cheater?

Answer 1

oh honey, the only thing that we as parents can do is watch.

i know it sounds harsh, but when people are blinded with love, there is nothing that we can do. if we try anything, they can get farther apart than bringing them closer.

just talk to her, and when shes ready to leave this other person be there to comfort her, make her feel that shes safe again.

if this is a violent relationship then i would suggest giving an anonymous call to the police. but that's it.


i wish u peace and comfort, shell be back soon dont worry.

♀♥♂

Answer 2

k.. If ur daughter is unmarried.... one best thing .. dont say her to forget him. Tell her that u are not planning for her marriage now.....But try to get some better guy for her parallely .. this is the one mostly change every gals mind............. She may yell at u initially, then slow down to not listening to u... And finally she will start discarding your new proposals... But at that time she will start to think. Take her to all ur relatives... friends marraiges. Take her to the places where u can find much decent people... But keep her close to u....

All the best..

If u re daughter is married.... Nothing more to say, only way is divorce and an another marriage... World is so wide.. u can easily go through opened doors instead of knocking the closed door............

Answer 3

I can only guess from your questions that you arranged a marriage for your daughter, paid a dowry and now feel cheated because you now find that he is somehow imperfect from having epilepcy.
What does any of this have to do with your daughters welfare and happiness? Is this really about her survival or your reputatuion for picking the wrong husband?

I cannot begin say I understand arranged marriage. I think children should make their own choices and mistakes as it turns out.

Answer 4

Why don't you ask your daughter what she feels about the whole thing.The bane of Indian society is that parents want to live their children's lives for them.Such people are called Control Freaks.
Stop being a control freak and let your daughter decide for herself.You are simply
getting your BP up and increasing the risk of
having a heart attack.I am not being callous.I am being practical.Things will sort themselves out.If you were to listen to my problems-------
Why should I burden you when all you are asking for is some consolation and good advice from someone with similar problems.Best of luck in your endeavors.

Answer 5

Well if you and your daughter feel the same way then there should be no problem.

Get her back and file for divorce or annulment.

If your daughter is confident that she will be happy with another guy then go ahed and next time get a medical test done on your future son in law before you accept his proposal.

Answer 6

♥ How old is your daughter? If she is 18 years old or older then there is nothing you can do but express your concerns and hope that she realizes what a scum bag he is. She has to learn on her own. When she does learn, just be there for her and support her. Good Luck!

Answer 7

Hm-mm... I answered this question before regarding the illness of your daughters husband... once again: If she wants to divorce, find a lawyer and encourage her to leave this man and his family the quickest way possible...

Answer 8

You can contact an advocate. He can file 2 cases. One is for legal separation and the other for maintenance.
Tell me your area and I may suggest you an advocate, who can help you. Women's organizations, like Bhoomika and Progressive Organization for Women, also help you in this matter.

Answer 9

What does your daughter want? You have to stay out of it until she is ready to leave, especially if they are married. Encourage them to seek marriage counseling.

Answer 10

Cheating has nothing to do with your daughter's welfare. If he's a good parent, but a lousy husband/ex-husband, there is nothing you can do about it.