My bf was scammed by some guy on the street the other day and since then he's been more nice to me than usual and is doing more for me.
Usually he won't eat a meal unlees I cook it for him and won't do anything that is not going to to directly benefit him. (Don't even get me started on the trash)
Is this a phase or was that incident what he needed to experience to see the err of his ways? It happened 3 days ago and he is still upset about it.
2007-09-13 04:38:45 · 7 answers · asked by what's the point 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He only lost $15. I know this because I'm in charge of the money for us and we get cash allowances each month and don't use debit or credit cards.
2007-09-13 05:19:16 · update #1
It sounds as if being taken advantage of really rattled him. This would be a good time to have a gentle conversation letting him know that you can see that he really was deeply shaken by being taken advantage of and that he needs to realize that he has been taking advantage of you in much the same way. Be prepared for some denial! It couldn't be the same ! But, yes it is! try to give some specific examples. Don't attack him just see this as an opportunity for change. If he can't/won't get it perhaps it's time for you to start hanging with someone who respects you enough to treat you well and not like an un-paid maid.
2007-09-13 05:30:50 · answer #1 · answered by o 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-10 12:19:40 · answer #2 · answered by overall 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Habits take 30 days to set. It doesn't matter if they are good or bad habit.
He could of been humbled by being scammed, but only time will tell if it sticks.
2007-09-13 04:55:44 · answer #3 · answered by snack_daddy10 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is it possible that something more happened and maybe hes not telling you it all? it sounds like guilt. I know a few ppl that were scammed in different ways but they all seemed to get more into themselves
2007-09-13 04:46:39 · answer #4 · answered by I hate stupid ppl like you 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think traumatizing situations can sometimes make people see the error of their ways.
2007-09-13 05:02:55 · answer #5 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he lost a lot of money...and is trying to kiss your *ss to make up for it.
2007-09-13 04:43:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
people will never change, i think that he lost a whole lot of money to change this much.
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2007-09-13 04:47:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋