I am a Scorpio married to a Leo?

Question

We have had a rocky relationship. He's stubborn and secretive and so am I. We are at a point of don't ask, don't tell. I think he's cheated on me and I flirt a lot and had an emotional affair with another man. It seems to be okay with me and with him. We don't have solid proof on each other, however, he doesn't snoop like me either. I think he's just really good at hiding his affairs. It seems as though we're settlling into a crazy relationship that actually feels good.

Are we weird, or what. Help please with advice. Thanks.

Answer 1

Scorpio and Leo

Romantic Leo, a Fire Sign, is self-sufficient, confident and an ardent lover, loaded with personal charm and physical magnetism. Hmmm. A marvellous challenge. Despite the bravado, the bold yet straightforward Lion will be instantly fascinated by your strategies, for the subtleties of the Scorpion are legendary.

The bedroom blitz is a genuine screamer, for the combination of Fire and Water generates enough steam to drive a turbine. Leo's enthusiasm and passion must be returned in equal measure, but Scorpio's sexuality is profound, all-consuming and intense, so no problem there. Leo loves to shine, so sex is of the nature of a proud display, and the Lion loves to gather trophies. Scorpio seeks transformation through the sexual experience, so on your own side, the quest is rarely taken on so lightly. Ruled by Mars, the god of primitive action and Pluto the lord of the underworld, the Scorpion mixes primal passion with a profound need to uncover the mysteries of life and death, including and especially sexual ones.

Leo and Scorpio are both Fixed Signs, closely matched with courage, determination and endurance, though not in subtlety.The clash of two powerful yet utterly different egos can see mighty conflicts should the Lion attempt to order you around, or intrude upon your private spaces. These collisions can be resolved in hot bursts of passion, at least in the early stages while the turbines are fired up and driving at full steam.

Most Big Cats have a positive attitude to love and sex, but there are many who suffer excruciating pangs of anxiety in relationship. Sexual anxiety may become so intense in some cases as to generate frigidity or impotence. So in a relationship, Leo loves to be the central, pivotal point around which all things revolve. Can you take this?

Leo can be jealous, usually out of pride, while your temperamental jealousy arises in a deep need to control. The Lion is no weakling and will soon unsheathe those formidable claws should the beast be thwarted.

Leo will soon tire of any sulky jealousy and possessiveness. You too will tire of the dance, then you won't be so inclined to flatter Leo's ego or accept the maned beast's endless desire to dominate. Can you put up with the constant extravagance and shameless social climbing?

If you love a Leo, get a full chart comparison to see if there are other less explosive factors. Well placed Moons can allow you to live and work together if not in harmony then at least with a sense of destiny and achievement (and good sex). If the steam turbine can be harnessed it can supply power for whole communities of lesser folk. If not, patch your wounds and head south.

Answer 2

exactly, go get help with a counselor to workout differences and tame your dramatic yelling. It's intense. Possessiveness is not love which you both possess. Plus, why torture yourself trying to be something you apparently are not just to satisfy your ego sometimes. Love has nothing to do with sex or ego... Love is deeper than that and unfortunately both sign are very shady with each other. Although there is a mutual respect for talent and qualities... there is lots of dishonesty in certain situations, too. Leos like Scorpios can be generous, but they can also be very selfish, both always want to be first. Both signs are self-centered. Leo can be sneaky and they will cheat if not satisfied and play the tamed cat given the situation, they can roar if disappointed. They are very self-confident thinking they won't get caught doing things that will upset Scorpio too much. They are independent, they are not attached to anything to anyone and can do as they please really, but they turn their arm a bit for scorpios. Generally, they enjoy being in control and like being their own boss, but so do Scorpio they want to be the leaders. They have needs and expect a lot from a relationship but they often make the partners jealous to grab attention. They hate it when their partners are not loyal or give them attention as well as compliments. Scorpios are also that way when it come to seeking the truth, many times they want loyalty and facts. Although they can fib about somethings or a lot of things they themselves don't practice... However, they still expect others to fulfill their needs at their demanding request. They have no patience at all and have short fuses when they don't get their way. Extremely manipulative. Leo like to be in control, too. And this is when both signs clash with each other. Especially when Scorpios become stubborn and stuck in their irrational ways. Sexually, passionately, and feeding off each others egos of talents, but if someone is not in the mood... It is drama and it is war! Leo are known to get moody and Scorpios are unpredictable what will irritate them any moment. Both signs like to be direct when demanding things and like to be right. Good luck trying to compromise! Leo are known to be loners, most of them are single... and Scorpio like company, but they like their space and privacy,too. They also don't like telling you their whereabouts. Sketchy! Leo can also be like this too, both need to report to each other whether they get a chance. They also question their trust and strong opinions. They always want to have the last word. Don't see this relationship getting married any time soon...but they can continue to be friends if their egos don't clash.

Answer 3

Leo and Scorpio

Scorpio and Leo: Water and Fire. Drama, intensity, a relationship of extremes. It can last, but it can also blow in your face, so be very careful.

In fact, there are as many pro arguments as there are against. The initial attraction, just like between any complementary elements, is very big. Especially the physical one. The intensity of feelings and the sexual relationship are two advantages that could almost help you have a happy relationship.

But both you and Leo strongly need to dominate, to control, to be the boss. And in this competition, Leo is at an advantage because (s)he roars louder (this is not a metaphor, Leo is, indeed, a master of speech, and when (s)he gets upset, (s)he becomes frightening). If you want an example, take a look at the front page of the newspapers issued several years ago and try to observe the relationship between the Great Lion Bill and the Scorpio Hillary Clinton. Neither of them gives up, neither of them yields an inch.

Leo has a great quality which often becomes his/her biggest defect: his/her EGO, which gives Leo a kind, generous heart, but also makes him/her possessive, dominant, cruel, theatrical (even VERY theatrical; "scenes" and slammed doors, final declarations are common things with a Leo).

Although it can work very well (you both like this kind of dramatic life, lived intensely, exhausting to most people), your relationship will stumble very often at this point, of domination. Besides that, Leo needs to know (s)he is always admired, worshiped, loved (honestly, not otherwise), while you are way too proud to offer him/her this. After all, who worships YOU? On account of the same need for adoration, Leo is not very faithful. And since you are one of the most jealous sun signs, it doesn't look too good.

If you really love your Leo, you'll have to show it to him/her. Permanently, constantly and always passionately. Don't try to flatter him/her, because, although Leo likes being praised, (s)he knows when someone isn't sincere. It's a gift (s)he has. But it's true a Leo will fall for sentences like: "you look so nice today, that thing looks very good on you", "you managed it so well, I didn't think someone would actually be able to do such a thing", "what an idea, you are truly a genius... can you give me some money to buy that thing today?".

Leo is simply overwhelmed when you praise him/her, especially if you are precise and sincere. And with his/her generous heart, Leo will satisfy any wish you have, without even asking what it is about. All you have to know is the way to start a sentence (three-five praises followed by the "request").

There is also the problem of domination. As anyone knows, Scorpio is the master of manipulation and schemes, tricks and pull stringing so you shouldn't have problems, on the condition that you accept this simple advice: Leo has to have the illusion that (s)he is the boss. Officially, Leo is the one in charge of everything. We know better, and Leo is not difficult to manipulate, unless you want the official power. Accept the role of the king or queen that rules from the shadow, and everything will be all right (well, there will still be scenes, but you like them).

Sexually, it's a wonderful relationship. Leo is the specialist of the zodiac when it comes to heartbreaking. That's what you have always wanted, haven't you? Someone to love you intensely, passionately, completely. Well, Leo can offer you all this (in exchange for your adoration, of course).

Since Leo doesn't do anything at a low scale, (s)he will do the same in bed. Leo is a very passionate and imaginative native, so you'll surely not get bored. And in time, (s)he'll become even more patient. It's the kind of relationship that starts intensely and slowly cools down.

In conclusion, is it worth it? The warning is very clear: you both have VERY strong personalities, which will often collide. But, on the other hand, Leo can offer you everything you have been dreaming of.

Answer 4

No they are actually not properly matched, properly i'm useful perchance there are Leos and Scorpios who're happy at the same time, yet over all no. i'm a Leo lady, before this 365 days (March) i began out courting a Scorpio guy, he advance into fairly candy and attentive on the initiating, even in the previous we've been given at the same time, he's ask how my day advance into, tell me what i wanted to pay attention etc...then a month into it issues began getting humorous, like he fairly wanted to verify me, even however he purely lived 15 minutes away, he in no way informed every person approximately me, we in no way went everywhere, like on dates or in spite of. He purely wanted intercourse...besides I later found out the reason he fairly observed me is cos he advance into dishonest and he lied some few najor issues... So no, Scorpios and Leos don't get alongside. He advance into continuously in a foul temper too and would control me and make me experience undesirable, so i'd apologise in spite of if it wasn't my fault just to maintain the peace. i'm with a Taurus guy now and its sooooo plenty extra suitable.

Answer 5

You both are fooling each other just for the fun in ur Present life. Think about Future of urs as well as ur partner. These two zodiac signs are extremes and its difficult to manage along.

I wud suggest u seek some counsellor.

Take care and all the best for ur future

Jeet

Answer 6

If it works for you guys, who am I to knock it. I just hope that both of you don't explode on each other. Both signs can be quite volitile if the wrong buttons are pushed. Good luck but be careful with what you both are doing. I hope that you are not just mistaken about what he's done or doing. That could all blow up in your face.

Answer 7

I don't know, I think you guys are really hurting ea other (whether you will admit it or not) It's kind of sad to read, you guys are MARRIED! What do you think marriage is? I sure would not want a marriage like yours! How hurtful and scarring. You should put yourself aside and stop w all the other men and go up to your husband hug him and tell him that he is the only one for you!

Answer 8

I'm a Leo married to a Pisces...Fire + Water = Stream...You two will be OK...just remember Leo's aren't the sneaky type...we just know to look innocent when guilty.

Answer 9

just deal with it it will work out

Answer 10

yes you are weird , please seek counseling.