we have been married for 8 yrs. have 2 children, 1st grade and kindergarden. we have a full time nanny... so wife has no excuse that she is tired all the time from taking care of kids. I do my share of house work. laundry, dishes, take out garbage, run vacuum. I pay all the houshold bills except her car payment and direct TV bill, She make more money than I do. I owned the house before we got married with no mortgage payment
2007-09-13 04:23:44 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No, its not ok---you need to find out why your wife turned out of the sex department, are there other problems in your marriage ...her tuning out as result? You need to work on your marriage now, try to find out what is broke and fix it.
Words of advice. Grass isnt greener on other side, quit that fantasy long time ago----you are in fantasy that gf will be ok, but when you do the first thing to displease her (maybe take away her credit card?) she will get your soul---and she will expect you to leave your wife, if you dont, she will cause you to lose the rest. Her lips are like honey, but her steps the path to hell. Those are words from centuries ago, but apply to today.
2007-09-13 04:37:06 · answer #1 · answered by skyward 4 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Cheating will NOT help!!! I have been through some rough times with my husband and it only makes things worse. Women who feel loved and respected by their spouse don't cut off sex! Maybe there are some underlying issues and you could get some counseling. There may even be a medical cause.
Don't throw away your family to "satisfy" yourself. It's not fair to her or the kids.
2007-09-13 04:49:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
How do you feel about your wife doing it to you? You did stand before God when you said your vows didn't you? You should think..... What type of person would sleep with a married man in the 1st place. Ohh classy I'm sure. If your unhappy You should consider divorce.
2007-09-13 04:43:58 · answer #3 · answered by VAL 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No ask yourself why she doesnt want to have sex with you anymore, that aint normal, I always want my man, more than he wants me even, and its cause he is good in bed...do something nice for her and DONT expect anything, maybe she feels ugly, is she fat?
Idk, maybe tell her you wanna get laid for a change. I mean you do alot and she seems to have time for you, so what gives, if you were my man you would get laid nightly, minus a week out of the month!
2007-09-13 04:50:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No it isn't ok to get a friend with benefits. You are only inviting trouble into your already troubled relationship with your wife. Have you tried talking to her? Maybe you both should try counseling.....but seriously no good will come by reaching out to another for what you are missing at home.
2007-09-13 04:33:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you are unhappy in your marriage it is no excuse no cheat...Try and talk it out and if you have and it didn't work than file for divorce, however sex isn't the only thing that makes a marriage strong, trust and communication is 2 main ingredients for success. Maybe you aren't being romantic enough. Just a thought.
2007-09-13 04:32:51 · answer #6 · answered by sweetemtation_123 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
NO! Its not ever ok. There is a reason why she isn't having sex with you. We women usually do that when we are missing something from our husbands. Are you making her feel loved? Are you paying attention to her. You need to find out what's bothering her. Marriage is about working things out. Why do you men automatically want to run out and **** someone else?? Geesh!
2007-09-13 04:56:39 · answer #7 · answered by Meichelle 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No- not under any circumstances while you are married. Period. Do you guys still love each other? Has either of you drastically changed physically? You need to talk it out or get counseling.
2007-09-13 05:15:28 · answer #8 · answered by RSJ 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Lol, if you got a girlfriend or friend with benefits your wife would probably quit in the marriage department.
2007-09-13 04:33:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
NO, it's not okay. You need to talk with your wife about it. Marriage and family is a partnership that in order to be successful there needs to be communication. Was that your first thought, to cheat?
2007-09-13 04:36:58 · answer #10 · answered by why ask 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋