May 2006 Joins true.com , Sept 2006 joins adultfriendfinder, Find chatting with live WEB CAM girls on home computer.Nov 2006 I find another women's phone number on cell phone bill. December 2006 starts, going to strip clubs on a regular basis. Find strippers phone number(Only stops because I protest, and I know he's been lying to me) Dec 2007 Finding women's make up on husbands shirts (which I save , by the way) Feb 2007 find Text message Happy Valentines 2 U! March 2007 buy's laptop and hides it in his company car, produces laptop a week later, says his company bought it. Hides the credit card receipit from me. History search reveals that he spends most of his work day surfing porn, and chatting with web cam girls. April 2007 lies about where he ate lunch.
He posts his picture and activates his fullblown profile adult friend finder website.
I confront husband about hurtfull things.
He says he has done nothing wrong and I'm insecure.
I leave him.
2007-09-13 04:21:47 · 15 answers · asked by Only Natural 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I applaud you!
2007-09-13 04:28:00 · answer #1 · answered by rainydaze 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This issue is obviously a very politicised one - but there is actually a perfectly simple, logical and sensible answer to help cut through the arguments. The word, 'rape' is a normal English word, but it is also a legal term with a specific legal definition. As with many legal terms, it's legal definition does not necessarily coincide with how people use the term in normal conversations. It also differs from one country to another. The same is true with assault. If I were to come up behind you and flick you on the ear for a joke, the law may well classify my action as an assault. However, as part of a non-legal conversation, an assault refers to something much more serious. The legal definition of assault is different from the way it is generally used as a normal English word in general conversation. Similar issues arise with most other legal definitions. To say, 'Rape is rape' suggests that the legal definition of the word and the general non-legal use of the word are exactly the same - but clearly they are not. The phrase, of course, is used as a sloppy sort of shorthand for saying that all rapes (as defined by the law) should be taken seriously. So, why not just say, "All rapes should be taken seriously"? It would cause a lot less confusion. The phrase is also used to imply that it is wrong to suggest that some rapes are more serious than others. Fairly clearly, though, some rapes ARE more serious than others. If two rather drunk people get into bed together and have sex, then, according to the legal definitions in some countries, they have both raped each other. However, this situation is obviously far less serious than someone being raped at knifepoint. To say, 'Rape is not always rape' is a way of saying that the legal definition of rape does not always coincide with the way we would use that term in a normal, non-legal conversation - and this is obviously true. Unfortunately, people often refuse to see common sense whenever it doesn't happily coincide with the political message they wish to promote. (M)
2016-05-18 07:09:17 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW!!! Yeah you've got yourself a true 100% cheater!! If he were just looking at porn and chatting with the web cam girls I'd think otherwise, but the fact that he's joining websites that promote dating and sexual relationships, and the strippers phone numbers, he's definitely cheating. You may need to take your proof to an attorney.
2007-09-13 04:29:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
pat urself on the back for doing the bravest , most difficult thing.u were right to leave because u not only let ur husband know that his behaviour was unacceptable . u also salvaged some dignity and self respect b4 he wrecked it completely.starting over wont be easy but u can do it with ur head held high and know that he was at fault and that he is the one who must now work at rebuilding trust within the relationship if that is wot u so desire.well done tho, i salute u !!!
2007-09-13 04:36:14 · answer #4 · answered by fingerlickinchicken 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it the old story, "you're just jealous"---the only thing you did wrong, you didnt leave him soon enough. Filing for divorce, September, 2007. You would be better off to have no one , rather than him.
2007-09-13 04:45:47 · answer #5 · answered by skyward 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My guess is the "loving" was gone before May 2006????
2007-09-13 04:27:17 · answer #6 · answered by me4tennessee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is question?? You just need to share this info. with someone, maybe? Well good choice, I am glad you left this jerk. You will be fine and will find someone who deserves you.
2007-09-13 04:29:25 · answer #7 · answered by misbotta 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So what were you doing all this time?
Why did he have to the need to step out on the marriage?
Was there something you were or were not doing?
Marriages do not have "good-guy" and "bad-guy" sides.
You've listed his faults. What were yours?
2007-09-13 05:22:05 · answer #8 · answered by snack_daddy10 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thank you for the heads up. I'm sorry it happened to you. But now I know what not to do.
Thanks
2007-09-13 04:29:08 · answer #9 · answered by Jose P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry that happened to you.
Please, for your own mental health, stay away from this person.
2007-09-13 04:30:14 · answer #10 · answered by GazzaGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seriously... have you been peeking in my windows and reading my e-mails... because I swear I've been RIGHT THERE! Good luck!
2007-09-13 04:27:39 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋