please give me some adivice
2007-09-13 04:05:59 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
on how to get him to come back i no he still loves me.
2007-09-13 04:06:41 · update #1
You can't. Either way he'll have to support your baby. It's really freaking him out that you're pregnant because he's not ready for a baby. Should've thought of that before having unprotected sex. You're better off without him-he sounds like he's really immature and you do not want that around your baby.
2007-09-13 04:13:49 · answer #1 · answered by Sit'nTeach'nNanny 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well it's like this if he wanted to be with you he wouldn't have ever left. think about yourself and the baby. Do you really want to drag a man back into your life who in his heart wants another women. you will just be setting up more pain and heartbreak for you and your child in the long run.
I know it's hard, heartbreak is an awful pain but in the future you will be proud of the desiscion you made for both of you(baby & you).Don't be a play toy, rebound, or anything second best to Anyone!!! There are all kinds of men out there who will treat you good love your kids and stand by your side through anything, i know you don't want to think about moving on but that's the best for you, don't let him treat you like a yo-yo, and think about it if he did come back he would do it again because you let him and he knows he can.
And you know he has slept with her and if he left you he will leave her to, and who knows what he does that you don't know about.
Don't be stupid, think about it, do whats best for you and baby. and he's not it!
sorry to be so harsh but thats the truth!! good luck! and don't take him back!
2007-09-13 04:32:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is one more example of modern society's shallow attitude toward love and sex. "Love" is something much deeper and more intense than a casual sexfest.
If he truly loved you, he would have had more respect for you (or, vice-versa) and waited to have sex until both of you were mature enough to make a lifelong commitment to each other.
But, our amoral culture lacks any moral sensibility. We have sex first, then get pregnant, then try to "fall in love".
You made a mistake. He doesn't love you. If he has any conscience at all, he will step up and assume - at least - financial responsibility for the child. If he doesn't, he's not worth your effort. -RKKO- 09/13/07
2007-09-13 04:19:44 · answer #3 · answered by -RKO- 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You know that if he went back to his girlfriend then you shouldn't trust him one bit.. I wouldn't get mixed up with him again.. I know that you love him and everything but you have a baby growing in your belly and you need to concentrate on it and do what is best for you baby and maybe in the end maybe your boyfriend will see the light at the tunnel and maybe by then it will be too late for you to get back together... I'm so sorry hang in there and just stay calm for the baby...
2007-09-13 07:23:02 · answer #4 · answered by friend 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know he loves you, why would he leave you in a time like this? I know that having a child was the biggest thing to ever happen to me, my husband wouldn't have missed it for anything. Maybe it spooked him, what does his ex have that drew him back? Children? Money? I can't think of anything better than expecting a child. If he is going to leave you now, you don't need him. He obviously doesn't care about you.
2007-09-13 04:15:44 · answer #5 · answered by 3030gal 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You'll have to let him go and find out for himself who he loves. It's unfortunate that you got pregnant from a man who doesn't truely love you (if he chooses his ex over you and the child then he doesn't love you). But maybe things will turn around for you. Other than that, make sure he knows that he will be part of his child's life and go to court so that you receive child payments to help you out.
2007-09-13 04:12:44 · answer #6 · answered by Les 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
He will be back after you lighten up you sound like a moron basket case in love with a predator.You will probally ending up having 6 kids get a job so you can support him
2007-09-13 04:18:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I really wouldn't waste your time. Any guy that would leave his pregnant girlfriend is a total loser. You deserve better than that, more importantly your CHILD deserves better than that. Put your baby first. Good luck
2007-09-13 04:37:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
one of your questions said me and my boyfriend what a baby...I dont have any advice on how to get him back. If he wants to be apart of the babies life then he will have to step up, otherwise I wouldn't bother with him. Hes not worth it
2007-09-13 04:12:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well he isn,t worth waiting for if he can leave you pregnant best to let him think you aren,t bothered i wouldn,t run after him let him realise he,s made a mistake i know it,s hard but you were probably to good for him you need to think of you and your unborn child and your health you don,t need a guy like that all the best x
2007-09-13 04:17:42 · answer #10 · answered by margaret d 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋