Okay people: My g/f has informed me last night that I don't make love, I only F**K. I have only been with 2 women so I'm not sure even what it is. Could some one please give me a crash course. I would be truly greatfull, please be serious.Mike
2007-09-13 03:56:46 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I got some interesting answers but lookking for some more mature advice.
2007-09-14 07:31:43 · update #1
Sounds like you got off and she didn't!
Love Making should start slow and last a long time and you should key on her pleasure! In the end you get off too but make the entire time about her and you will do fine!
2007-09-13 04:00:45 · answer #1 · answered by me4tennessee 6 · 8⤊ 3⤋
I agree, you finished and she did not. There's no such thing as love making. It's just a euphanism, but you do need to make sure that you take care of her needs as well and afterwards give your girlfriend a few kisses and a hug and then let your girlfriend lead the way. After an orgasm a woman's brain releases some hormones and we'll become temporarily insane (overly emotional) and sometimes cuddling and a small chat is needed other times after sex, pizza and beer is better!
2007-09-13 11:05:56 · answer #2 · answered by skunk pie 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
F****** is when you grab her crotch and rub it once or twice, squeeze her breast once or twice and then you're at it...and then your done.......it's usually fast and fun.....but lacking a lot of things some women really enjoy. Spending time touching her and telling her you love her, that she is beautiful and starting slowly and then working it up to a fast ending is more my description of making love. Both are wonderful to me. F****** is taking your pleasure and making love is giving pleasure.....
2007-09-17 02:18:22 · answer #3 · answered by Miss Bodacious (Star) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it just seems like u must be doing the same thing each time u have sex, try to do some different things with her and maybe grunt once in a while. stick ur finger in her @ss then stick it under her nose for her, take and sniff it urself as u tell her how beautiful she is. try to stick one of her toes in ur nose, the big toe would be nice if it fits. sounds like u just need more foreplay and a different style now and then.
2007-09-13 11:07:59 · answer #4 · answered by robert d 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Love making to me, is usually sweet, slow and romantic...not let's hurry up so I can have an orgasm...it's more about the emotions involved than the physical act. Some time it's good to just F**k but other times women want romance. Set up a romantic night, she won't be disappointed! Good luck!
PS - many women aren't so focused on the orgasm...I can still really enjoy it without one
2007-09-13 11:04:49 · answer #5 · answered by Katie T 4 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Hmmm...the woman wants to be "made love" to...what a shocker! Is she being a bit too sensitive? And if you really don't know what you're doing wrong, ask her. She'll probably tell you some bs like you don't kiss her enough, or you're too rough. (What's wrong with that, but oh well) yeah, just ask her. And ladies, really, sometimes we do want to get f**ked. Don't play mary poppins. You know I'm right.
robert d below me, BRILLIANT ANSWER!
2007-09-13 11:07:52 · answer #6 · answered by ron-D 7 · 2⤊ 3⤋
Kiss her neck alot and play with her breast and just do alot of touching, maybe go down town and don't ask for anything in return. I know it's sucks but tell her you love her while your doing it. and maybe go a bit slower. oh yea i love this wrap your arms under her arms and grab her shoulders as you go in slow and deep. Hope this helped? i like to be man handled so it's kinda hard to say!
2007-09-13 11:04:21 · answer #7 · answered by rachelrmf@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
You need to do more kissing, caressing, touching, holding, slow motion feeling all the sensations and be sure she gets hers before you get yours.
2007-09-13 11:10:03 · answer #8 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
yup....go get some candles and some cocktails.....set up the room when she is in the shower......when she walks in start by kissing her neck and moving other places. Take it slow.....kiss her everywhere softly and then move to her lips and start off slowly and them get a little bit more intense.....she probably thinks that you dont make love because you get straight to the point and dont kiss her all over and make her feel good.......try taking it slow and enjoying her body before you do what you do best....he he
2007-09-13 11:04:08 · answer #9 · answered by Sales Girl 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Love making is slow, passionate, and VERY pleasurable. Lots of foreplay and last for hours...
2007-09-13 11:10:27 · answer #10 · answered by Beatngu 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋