it is normal ?
2007-09-13 03:56:25 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Why did you get married if you don't think marriage is for you?
2007-09-13 04:02:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will be okay. Living with another person and having to deal with the bad after knowing all the good is the hardest thing to do for the first 2 years! Give your marraige attention and learn about how to make it work. You may have gotten married thinking that it may make your life better and are finding out that this is not the case. Don't worry. It will get better with a little effort. Laugh at each other and laught at yourself. IT's wonderful.
2007-09-13 11:08:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? How long did you date before you got married? You just have the feeling without any real reason? It’s probably just the newness of it. It’s a normal feeling. Don’t do anything rash. Just take it a day at a time. Relax and get to be comfortable with your married life. And get with your new hubby and have fun!
2007-09-13 11:05:16 · answer #3 · answered by RSJ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first you should not have got married if you were not sure. If you just got married, give your marriage some time and yourselves some time to get into the groove. The couple of years are tough as you are trying to get use to living with someone and adjusting to their personality and habits.
2007-09-13 11:09:53 · answer #4 · answered by jimmy.parker06 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
am not clear with your question, but if am not wrong u said u just married and u are not ok. if i may ask what are the things going wrong with ur marriage that does not make u to ok with it, so that i can answer ur question. but in any situation just pray for favour of God and please endure to the end u will soon enjoy it.
2007-09-13 11:07:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Things are only going to get better for you. In about 6 years when you have 3 kids, you're fat, and your husband doesn't like you anymore, you are going to be so happy! It's always funny to run in to old classmates at the store, and this has happened to them! They are just so happy!
2007-09-13 11:21:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you talking about the bedroom or just marriage in general? If it's the bedroom, then yes it is normal. If you are talking about your marriage in general, you better get counseling that is not normal.
2007-09-13 11:03:07 · answer #7 · answered by kitkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, marriage is a huge adjustment and takes time to get used to. Have you made any conscious efforts during this adjustment/transition period? Have you discussed your discomfort with your spouse?
2007-09-13 11:17:58 · answer #8 · answered by Benji's Mommy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you married the wrong man for the wrong reasons.
2007-09-13 11:05:22 · answer #9 · answered by ron-D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have ya been livin' 2gether b4 ya got married?? If not, then I guess u ain't use 2 livin' w/ a male. I don't know, but u're barely startin' so be patient.....
2007-09-13 11:05:25 · answer #10 · answered by mz_noneya_biz 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋