Assuming that everything has been set: the venue, the invitations have been given, everything.
2007-09-13 03:35:16 · 37 answers · asked by 123mantobeat456 6 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
HMMMMM.
This is probably the only question where there's a unanimous decision.
2007-09-13 03:46:17 · update #1
im not gonna marry my fiance if i dont love him..wethere i found out he is gay or not. If he confess to me that he is gay but still wanna marry me, the answer is yes! im still gonna marry him...besides maybe he wanna change and be straight...he needs my help. But if he will be gay forever, but he loves him and i feel the same way im still gonna marry him.
2007-09-13 03:41:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I suppose you COULD get an annulment the next day (assuming you do not consummate the marriage) but it would be better to try to call it off. I always wondered how you would do that, though. How would you get a hold of all those people you invited? And if your upset, which I would assume you would be, you certainly aren't going to want to keep talking about it over and over to tell them all.
Anyways, I would be seriously asking my fiance why they planned on marrying me if they were gay, and I doubt I would go through with it. It wouldn't be a real marriage, and I would hate that.
2007-09-13 03:41:27 · answer #2 · answered by Lady M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gay fiance
It is likely that I woul have slept with him prior to marriage. If I had found him quite satisfactory as a sex partner his othe idiosyncracies would not be relevant for me. I will marry him. In case I found him inadequate then I would drop the proposal like a hot potato.
GayFiancee
I must have slept with her before marriage. If I find that the experience was quite adequate I would ignore her other flings. I would go on with the proposal.May be she is an active gay displaying make symptoms but as long as the foreplay leads to the summum bonum it is immaterial. In case she is a passive gay I would not have any objection if she occasionally goes with other girls.even after marriage.
I am not an orthodox man/woman who believes all that crap about irregular sex in the scriptures etc.
2007-09-13 03:53:45 · answer #3 · answered by Prabhakar G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. I can't imagine why anyone would want to waste anymore time with and end up marrying a person who is gay. That would just create a lot more problems later on than just than canceling a wedding would.
2007-09-13 03:40:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Why in the world? If a person is gay then they aren't going to authentically marry you.
You would be starting your marriage as a lie and it would just go downhill from there.
2007-09-13 03:38:42 · answer #5 · answered by KD 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
What makes you think shes gay? If she sleeps with you, says she loves you and seems sincere, maybe shes bi? Explain the gay part of this, how u know etc.?
2007-09-13 03:39:50 · answer #6 · answered by Janessa 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, there would be no point. I'd give the wedding away to some other couple who is looking to get married!
2007-09-13 03:39:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Not just no but, HELL NO! There would be no point...as one answerer pointed out, it would only wind up in divorce anyway.
Why would anyone deliberately set themselves up for pain, misery and loneliness??!
It just doesn't make sense.
2007-09-13 03:40:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what a question...no way!
send out invitations saying "look whos finally come out of the closet" instead
2007-09-13 03:42:21 · answer #9 · answered by tina 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not. Why would I want to marry a gay guy?
2007-09-13 03:38:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋