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The man lost his genitals. So, would you still stay with your boyfriend/girlfriend/husband/wife in those situations:
1 If this would happen to you
2. If this would happen to he/she.
2007-09-13 03:30:06 · 15 answers · asked by Fr0z3nByt3 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If I loved him, yes I would. There are other options when it comes to the bedroom that we could explore. What matters most would be that I loved him for who he is, not what he's got.
2007-09-13 03:33:45 · answer #1 · answered by Royalhinney 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I suppose that if you love someone and have been in a relationship with that person for a long time there are more chances of you still loving him/ her.
Now, nature is something to count with as well. Do you think you could suppress any sexual needs?
That'd mean that you'd never go out or wouldn't watch much tv as it is everywhere in all programmes now, even in advertisements.
So, what I have seen happening in those situations, is that the woman, or the carer tends to have someone outside the relationship and I suppose you can call that person a lover.
They don't see it that way, to them that person is usually called a "dear friend". And who are we to pass judgement on those people or to say never ever????
Personally I don't know.
If it were me, maybe I might even encourage my man to find someone. I might even divorce him if it happened to me, as I know that I couldn't possibly ask him to spend the rest of his life without enjoying that human need.
Wouldn't you want your love one to be happy, with or without you??
I think if you truly love someone, then, you want them to be happy. And if you can't make that happen, then even if it's hard, you are happy for them if they can find someone who can.
2007-09-13 10:47:00 · answer #2 · answered by Kc 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I would stay with my husband. I love him for him. No matter what.
I would hope he would want to stay with me, but being female, the only thing a chimp could rip off is my breasts, and women have to deal with that all the time. There's plenty of women that had to and will have to have mastectomies that deal with this issue everyday.
2007-09-13 10:36:57 · answer #3 · answered by ♦justme♦ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is undonsitional, Real love that is. I would defintely still be with my husband f he lost his genitals. I'll just look for other ways he and I can sexually satify each other.
2007-09-13 10:34:55 · answer #4 · answered by Spanish Mami 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have way too much time on your hands. Of course I would stay. Love is love and if you are an adult and love him, you don't leave because he had a terrible accident. "For better or worse" "In sickness and in health"....
2007-09-13 10:37:50 · answer #5 · answered by kitkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I married for better or worse....So it really doesn't matter what happened....If I stay for only the good and run for the bad what kind of person does that make me?
2007-09-13 10:34:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think it depends on the person you are with if you truely love them for themselves and are happy with them then yes stay. if your relationship is widely based on sex then it would be fruitless to continue. If it happened to you you need to let your partner make the decision to stay or go it is selfish for you to make the decision for them only they know why they are with you and what they are ready to deal with to continue to be with you.
2007-09-13 10:37:30 · answer #7 · answered by aeval_anu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would stay it is a better or worse thing when you take those vows. Put your self in his shoes I sure he would be there for you.
2007-09-13 10:37:15 · answer #8 · answered by indigodreams41 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will stay with my husband forever whatever happens
2007-09-13 10:38:03 · answer #9 · answered by guRl 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My wife can't have sex any more, but I love her and would never leave her.
Easy answer for me, why is it a question for you?
2007-09-13 10:38:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋