When my 27 year-old now-ex-boyfriend cheated on me with an eighteen year old girl (who was my best friend's daughter), it was the third time he cheated on me with very young girls. He showed absolutely no remorse. I had forgiven him when he stole from me (to support his drug habit), I'd forgiven his moodiness (and abusive temper) on many occasions. I'd forgiven lies he told about me (to protect himself). I'd forgiven the cars he wrecked of mine (probably while he was under the influence). He had basically used me for two years for my money, and even though I'd taken him in, provided for him (he never had a job), loved him, he was never faithful to me. The thing is, I thought he was, for a long time, and to find out differently, and the way I found out (another story), was so shocking and hurtful that for a short while I temporarily "lost it." I managed to secretly figure out his MySpace password and, pretending to be him, sent emails to all his friends (esp. the girls) and told them all he had a criminal record (which he does), that he has been using them all (which he was), and that he was a pedophile (which in my opinion, he is). Quite a few of those girls/people he's never heard from since. Also, I made copies of a naked picture (of him "playing" with his erection) that I had of him, and sent them (as well as a copy of a "sex-letter" I found, that he'd written, to one of the girls he cheated on me with) and enclosed these items in Christmas cards and sent them to certain friends and family of his. (The ones who thought he could do "no wrong"- the ones who didn't believe he had used me and cheated on me.) Am I sorry? Nope. Not really. I figure I actually really did them all a huge favor.
EDIT: I'm not a hateful person. It takes a tremendous amount to push me "over the edge." Everyone has a breaking point. What I find hard to believe is that most people answering this question are saying "I never did anything hateful to anyone", or the "worst thing I've ever done is leave the toilet seat up." Or I really got to him when I "beat him at flag football!" (Oh my!) I don't even buy the asker's statement that the worst thing he's ever done is walk out on a date who's been rude to him....c'mon people...where's the honesty? LOL!
2007-09-13 03:46:25
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answered by It's Ms. Fusion if you're Nasty! 7
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Some girl was hating on me for no apparent reason and told me that she has a boyfriend and never told me before but I didn't care to have someone;I just wanted to hang out with her so when she did that.I started to get offended so we had a long text battle on the cell phone arguing and one of things she said is that she wished she never knew me and she is the one with the problem and all my insults on the text match was true and she said mean things but I said things that are real and when I knew I was right I stopped texting her and she still answered back "Whats wrong you don't know what else to say"?I was like whatever without texting it and I stopped.I didn't want to waste minutes fighting when she is conceided and I'm actually happy that I'm not the guy dating her because she doesn't understand when someone else has true dirt.So after that day she stopped texting and I ofcourse did too.Plus my texting cost money and if I had free text I would text her insulting stuff until that scarred her life.I was like Eminem when he has something good to say in a freestyle but mine is different I'm defending and telling her straight up that what she did was rude.Not wanting to get to know me and I never had issues and I always got along.
2007-09-13 11:37:42
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answered by Anonymous
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Well, probably the ones who know me would say that the most hateful thing I did was to keep marrying them, but I think it was to my last exhusband.
I had bought him a tractor for his birthday and then he made me mad and I put sugar in the tanks of it and his motorcycle and slashed all the tires on both of them and poured potting soil in the radiator of the tractor. I would have done the same thing to his truck, but he was in it.
Another time I broke into his tool shed and took all his tools and gave them to Goodwill. Oh, I almost forgot, I threw all his rifles into the lake. He never used them anyway.
You notice that all of these caused him material pain. That was the only way to hurt him. He valued money more than people.
Oh, I did do one non material thing. After we finally broke up I called his girl friend and told her I was an investigator with the Health Department and she had been named as a sex partner by someone we were treating for syphilis and she needed to make an appointment to come in and be tested.
2007-09-13 13:45:35
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answered by LodiTX 6
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Ahhh here you are despite the fact you will not respond to my emails, puta!
Maybe I answered the phone at a game lol!
Well in the sex/hate relationship...
In addition to telling his girlfriend that he was cheating her her with me...previously to that....
I told his best friend that my dude had been lying to him about some stuff.....and I suppose the kicker was at one point I lied and told him I could be pregnant, on a friday afternoon.
Funny thing is, I am not a mean person, but it is indeed true that hell hath no fury...sometimes you can be surprised at the things you are capable of !
Relationships truly do bring out the worst in many, but f**k, man, he deserved all of it!
I vote for Tera tho...that's awesome.
2007-09-13 11:53:01
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answered by Anonymous
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I ended a long distance relationship (I was in South America) by saying 'I miss pizza more than you.'
The worst part is that I didn't even think of it as insulting at the time, it was just funny. It was a couple of days before I realized how cruel it was but it was too late, the letter had already been sent.
The REALLY sad part is that I don't much care for pizza anymore.
2007-09-13 18:45:29
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answered by thelairdjim 3
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Hate is a strong word to me. The only thing I can think of is I hung up on a guy who was extremely rude to me the night before. He apparently was desparate, as he came pounding on my door after several attempts at reaching me. Finally, I left the house via the back door and went for a walk...eventually he got the picture and stopped calling or coming over.
Is that hateful?
2007-09-13 09:53:21
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answered by Jill S 2
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I broke up with my sweet 1st girlfriend in 8th grade because a few guys were making fun of me cause I was dating her. That was unprovoked. My ex provoked me to tell her she wasn't worth all the maintenance (thoughtfulness and tolerance of whims) that she demanded because she was so low integrity. This is one of the worst things you can say to a woman, that she's not worth the trouble.
2007-09-13 11:53:48
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answered by Anonymous
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I have never done anything hateful to anyone of the opposite gender...and I think this question is ridiculous. Are you trying to promote hatred? You think it's funny? Why would anyone purposely do something hateful to someone? It boggles the mind.
2007-09-13 12:22:03
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answered by teeleecee 6
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well compared to Elana and TERA, i dont think this is very hateful.
i created a Myspace account for my now ex-bf and of course, i knew all the passwords. on the day we broke up, because he was cheating. I changed most of the page and things like About Me sections and pics to make him look really bad. i did change some of it back afterwards in case he found it but i had added loads of his friends and they stopped talking to him because i had written on there things he had said to me about what he thought of them and some still dont speak to him! lol its been a year lol check it out - www.myspace.com/thelittlewelshchef - i did edit some bits cos i felt nasty after but you get the picture!
i also cheated on him when he cheated on me and i forgave him so he had to forgive me for doing it back to him and then i dumped him saying i didnt want his forgiveness and slammed the door in his face to create this profile!
2007-09-13 11:45:40
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answered by Anonymous
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A guy friend was annoying me a few times and I kicked him in the shin. It must not have been that painful after all, because we ended up going to our graduation dance together.
2007-09-13 15:41:32
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answered by Rio Madeira 7
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The most hateful thing I've ever done to the men in my life was break up with them. They still call me.
I told them to get over it.
2007-09-13 13:10:42
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answered by Rainbow 6
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