Whys is it some people always have a problem?

Question

and usually blame everyone but them selves {It is never their fault?}

Answer 1

It's easier to blame someone else than yourself...obviously. If people blame themselves, that means they put themselves down and that doesn't feel good. You should know that.

Answer 2

Are you not aware of the truism 'Only the dead have no problem'they themselves of problem for others.'

So there is nothing wrong having problems.What is wrong is that some living persons facing problems behave as dead persons who ,as said above, a prblem for othrs.In the Maha Bharat Lord Krishna asked Draupadi after the war is oer and Dharmaraj is installed in the throne,'What more can I do for you now,sister?" Says Draupadi,'Lord ,give us problems so that it would always make us remember you.' So not only having problems is natural but even inviting probles is also a sign of vibrant life.

Some persons just get upset whenever a problem confronts them.They run to temples or to asrologers to fnd out what is wrong in their fate for such problems to confront them.It is a human weakness. Nothing more.

Answer 3

Couldn't resist answering this.people in general all have a different genetic make-up.(born this way)but I do feel at times it is the environment that a child grows up in that has the most effect in all aspects of one's personality.Dad,Mom one or both have the biggest effect on how a child develops.What is normal for a parent is normal for a child.Now,saying this, as a child grows,they are exposed to more people.They also help,in a smaller way in how a person reacts.Many people,I wouldn't say most,cannot accept responsibility for their actions.I refer to all ages.It is ingrained so deeply in them that they think it is normal.Always your fault,never mine.Change them?Almost impossible to do..Sadly,others tire of this after a while and stay away from the negative person.Until they own up to what they did,they will live a lonely life.Do you remember-"As the branch is bent,so the tree will grow"-Hope this answers your "?."

Answer 4

You can think of it this way, by their negative actions and words they magnify the more positive easy going individual. Conditioning plays a part,and not having to be responsible when things don't work out is the method. Today there are excuses for everything,no one wants to be accountable, yet they want to be in charge, a oxymoronic idea. Little children naturally will do that till they learn it is inappropriate, adults who act this way are still immature.
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Answer 5

"A man can fail many times, but does not become a failure until be blames someone else."

This is one of my favorite quotes. People tend to blame others, because it's the easy way out.

Answer 6

The cheapest easiest way to get the attention they crave, is to whine and woe, and make themselves seem pathetic.

My observation is, men usually blame other people, women usually blame themselves... for anything.

Answer 7

I have a friend like that. She claims to be Bi Polar, and was admitted to a mental institution, but we all know it's just for the attention. It really makes me mad though, because she has a daughter, and her husband (baby's daddy) is a crack head. She really needs to be taking care of her child, rather than getting free prescriptions.

Answer 8

To avoid being responsible for fixing the problem, and to avoid a sense of guilt. Its easier to move your mouth and point your finger than admit you screwed up and work to repair the problem.

Answer 9

I believe some people thrive on drama! A lot of problems are the result of their own bad decisions but they don't realize it.

Answer 10

because people who have the problems want everyone else to know their problems and they feel better when they blame someone else!