I have asked this question before, if you have answered that’s fine, I just need more answers.
a girl i know, is having a birthday, i am not interested in dating her, she is currently single but dating trying to find a guy, i went and bought her a $850 necklace jewelry as a gift, which i can afford that, but the lady who sold it to me, told me it may give her mixed signal or that i may be intreseted in in her, which i am not, all my friends know that i am very generous due to my good paying job, she does not know that, i only know her for a month, i don't know what to do?, should i give it to her or not, if i give it to her should i give it to her in private or infront of others, especially that i don't want others to see me giving her the gift, also, my girlfriend may be there at the birthday party, and my girl friend does not know anything about the gift, and i never got my girl friend any gifts before, and i don't want to get her anything at this stage, because i don't want her to think that i am trying to buy her with my money, she hates rich people to answer those who said give it to your mother, i bought my mom alot of things, i bought her a house, a summer vacation house at the beach and a car full in cash. for my girl friend, i didn't forget about her. i am going to fly her to france in this october
2007-09-13 01:30:19 · 6 answers · asked by ilovelife 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well you said you're not interested in her, so if you want to give her the girft that expensive and your heart tells you to do it then do it but as a girl I can tell you that she might think that you want something with her so give her the necklace in private but make sure you tell her is not what she thinks explain to her your situation before is too late and tell your girlfriend about the gift you're planning on give because if you don't tell her and she finds out by somebody else she's not going to trust you anymore and that can ruin your relationship. Trust her and tell her everything if there is something a girl hates is somebody who don't trust in her! I hope this has help you a little bit later.
2007-09-13 01:47:26 · answer #1 · answered by gaby89 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd return the necklace (why make her uncomfortable), buy something of a more appropriate price ( are you generous or showing off ) then buy a car that you like.
2007-09-13 02:11:54 · answer #2 · answered by JB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont give her the gift it will be obvious that you like her
and may b ur gf will miss understand u and this will cause u alot of proplems which u dont need
2007-09-13 02:24:58 · answer #3 · answered by hero the free-booter 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think there's really no problem if you give the gift, especially if she knows that you have a girlfriend...
2007-09-13 01:41:55 · answer #4 · answered by jowy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it will be obvious that you like her...but if you don't give it to her then it would be a waste of $850...i dunno...you decide
2007-09-13 02:06:03 · answer #5 · answered by substitute_for_real_emotion 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well its your money, if you got then go for it.
2007-09-13 01:41:08 · answer #6 · answered by Flying Spagetti Monster 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋