My love life is about to end.Her parents wont agree and she cannot come for me leaving them.Help me please.?

Question

Hi i am a software professional.I am in love with my girlfriend for the past 3years.We both are from different castes.She is 2 months elder than me.This is where the problem.Her parents are unable to accept me in this case as she is 2 months elder than me.They believe in astrology.According to the horoscope some astrologer told them that if their daughter marries me i will die within 6 months of our marriage.Even she is scared about this and avoiding me a lot.But she loves me very very much.She will be completing her PG and got selected for MNC.She will be joining in that company by july,2008.So anyone help me in this.

Answer 1

Ouch, you can't fight tradition. Love I'm afraid isn't strong enough. I mean you could educate them into how harmful it is to live ones life based on the assumptions of people who use to believe that the light of stars came from charlot wheels that the gods rode on, but that might just get you slapped. This might be one of those cruel reality checks that people have to run into in the course of there lives that shows them how much love is not enough to keep a relationship togehter. Specially in your case, you guys don't share the same ideology therefor the friendship is strained, therefor all you guys have is the love and the history, which is all great, but its not going to gaurentee that even if you get her and her family past this, that something else won't come up later to breck the relaitonship. So ether you join her in her ideology, or you get her to see your way, anything else other then that, would only delay the unavoidable, you guys ARE NOT compatiable. Don't feel bad, old brutals lost plenty of lovin because of this, it hurts, but finding a relatioship were you both ARE compatiable makes up for it, not so much hard work for nothing....