I've just recently divorced my husband. I have never been so Happy in my life!!! I lived with him for 10 years and didn't realize that he was the main source of my stress until I was out of the marriage. He yelled a lot and barked out orders all of the time. I have 2 chikdren that faught like cats and dogs and amazingly after the divorce they don't fight nearly as much. They are actually friends. We have peace in our new home> Has this happened to you?
2007-09-12 23:41:52 · 16 answers · asked by Sparkles 4 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Did I mention 10 long years and pleading with him to go to counseling for anger issues. It was wonderful for the first few years then CONTROL started. He refused tgo to counseling and now he is sad that he doesn't have a family.
2007-09-12 23:51:13 · update #1
Congratulation on your new found freedom! I divorced my ex-wife after months of therapy regarding my guilt over how our kids would 'survive' such a tramatic event. The therapist was right... the kids are fine. There was a period where they were hurting but it's been a couple of years now and they are fine. Pay attention to your kids during the next few months. Make sure that they are adjusting. They are the most important thing in your life besides yourself. You've already taken care of #1 (you) now support them. Slowly, ease into the dating scene and make sure that the kids remain in contact with their dad. Best of luck and congrats!
2007-09-13 05:11:47 · answer #1 · answered by confusedsoul 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was married for 23+ years. I was on cloud 9 after my divorce.He was a Manic Depressant and believe me everyone in the house suffered. My daughter use to ask me to divorce her father.(that was just sad) But yes I'm very HAPPY. I'm married again to a great guy.My life is nothing like it use to be. Just don't be afraid to love again, cause there are good guys out there,you just got a dud the first time around!!
2007-09-13 02:31:18 · answer #2 · answered by deanorjon 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you may no longer have a happy divorce. For one, any divorce isn't "happy" and secondly, your husband does not choose a divorce, subsequently, no count what, you will destroy his coronary heart in case you divorce. To be on the receiving end of a divorce you probably did no longer choose is amazingly probably the main coronary heart-wrenching/destroying and annoying experience it is elementary to ever adventure (i comprehend reason i've got been there). he's in denial with reference to the divorce because of the fact he continues to be in love with you and concept you adult males had an eternal courting. My suggestion is to report and serve him with papers in case you experience ike you have achieved all you have achieved to your marriage and nonetheless choose out. That way he's unfastened to locate somebody who somewhat desires to be with him and be committed to him. you have an "consumer-friendly" divorce if he does not contest it yet whilst he does, this is extra complicated. yet i'm sorry to assert, this would in no way be a "happy" divorce because of the fact he would be heartbroken. that's going to be like a dagger in his coronary heart.
2016-10-04 12:04:43 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont wish i will get divorced someday ... thank GOD i have a beautiful husband and i love him so much
but i know the relief u r talking about
i once engaged with someone loved me so much and just do anything for me ... but i didnt love him at all,... i just wanted to be with him, cos he was the only one i got in this world ( i am dumped from my family, was homeless and just lost all of my money)
i know i was suck .... my ex was the only one care me...
since i didnt love him, it was a stressful time being with him
i hate being kissed and touched by him ...
i broke him up before we go any further ...
i couldnt imagine now how my life will be if i got married with him
it was the happiest time in life that time :p
2007-09-12 23:50:34 · answer #4 · answered by lucky_1179 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG YES it did! Congratulations on your NEW LIFE! My ex was very abusive, and my sons were from my previous marriage. He was full of hatred at everyone and everything. Stuck it out for over 8 years with him before I had had ENOUGH and threw him out. From that point on, my life only got better! You WILL find someone eventually that will be PERFECT for you, don't let THIS bad experience stand in your way of happiness!
2007-09-12 23:47:56 · answer #5 · answered by charks love 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm happy now with my divorce too. My ex didn't yell or bark out orders. He was so laid back that nothing ever got accomplish. Good Luck to us divorcees.
2007-09-13 11:53:39 · answer #6 · answered by Squirt 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm not divorced, but in all honesty, I don't think I'd be happier, I can't imagine life with out him! All the best to you!
2007-09-13 00:02:41 · answer #7 · answered by J*A*K*C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this is going to sound sad, BUT Yes I was happy to get my divorce, BUT I was out of this world happy when she killed herself. She was screwing me really bad with child support. And yes, I DO believe in supporting your kid/s
2007-09-13 00:11:49 · answer #8 · answered by GRUMPY 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your whole speel is one reason I am worried about getting married.. People treat it like some sort of joke.. Like it's something to do just to fill in time... I'm not talking about you specifically.. But people in general now days...
2007-09-12 23:47:44 · answer #9 · answered by Cato Says "Kalamaloo" 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm not divorced but have the feeling that if I were to. I would be happier.
2007-09-12 23:47:31 · answer #10 · answered by Red Rose 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋