I have my first date with someone very special on Saturday. I'm afraid though that if I don't put out, she won't love me anymore. Should I just give it up?
2007-09-12 23:28:01 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
omg these are some of the best answers EVER
2007-09-13 00:02:21 · update #1
You cant have your tongue and eat it too.
2007-09-12 23:39:18 · answer #1 · answered by tyler durden 5 · 9⤊ 0⤋
You have a first date but she won't love you anymore? is that the carriage before the horse or whatever.
If you already know her well and this is cross over from being a great friend - then be unwell and excuse yourself late into the date if it looks like it is going that way. Respect yourself first though.
If it is a completely new person - that is a bit heavy.
2007-09-13 06:37:23 · answer #2 · answered by Hope Passion Sanity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well what the hell are you saving it for? Go out to a nice restaurant for dinner, like Pizza Hut or someting fancy. Let her pay for dinner and you might actually feel a bit more obligated to put out maybe. That might help loosen you up about the whole thing. Whatever you do, put out, it's always appreciated when a woman puts out!
Next weekend when I'm up that direction I'll come by and you can tell me all about how it went, we'll go to Pizza Hut or something!
2007-09-13 09:15:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, love is not about whether or not you had sex on the first (or second) date...If you really like eachother get to know eachother first and she should respect the fact that you would not put out so fast, It could actually turn them off or they may not take you as seriously if they think of you as a slut.
2007-09-13 06:36:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
U don't have 2 put out on ur first date. Play it all by ear, b yourself and have fun. If u c it going in that direction let it go in that direction. U mite find it not 2 b appropriate on the nite and it may go down a different path. Don't feel pressured in2 putting out on ur first date. It is not a necessity. Play the nite by ear. Don't rush in2 it.
2007-09-13 06:36:11 · answer #5 · answered by bammbamm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're having your first date and you think she loves you already? And you feel like you have to "put out" to keep a relationship? Are you listening to yourself? I see a lot of pain in your past. I suggest getting some professional counseling or at the least do some honest soul searching. good luck. peace
2007-09-13 06:39:56 · answer #6 · answered by Pilgrim Traveler 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I usually wait til the 3rd date...but thats just me.
Of course,I make sure the dates are 3 consecutive days in a row ;)
2007-09-13 07:44:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What are you, a nun!? Darling, you're ALIVE! Do the horizontal mambo while you still can.
To paraphrase my dear Auntie Mame, life is a banquet -- so EAT!
2007-09-13 13:38:07 · answer #8 · answered by The Snappy Miss Pippi Von Trapp 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if thats all she wants for a first time date, then i think i would just talk to her and say is that all she wants for a first date, and that it would be better just to get to know each other a lil bit and have fun, not sexual fun.
2007-09-13 06:41:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HAAAA! I love the answer that said get professional counseling
give her halfsies and tell her she will get the rest on the 2nd date
2007-09-13 06:44:26 · answer #10 · answered by ? 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes. She's very special and it will be beautiful. If you are the least bit worried come see me first and I'll get you all warmed up. â¥
2007-09-13 06:45:14 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋