To all gay guys out there, how do u feel about close physical contact with girls? What if a girl suddenly hugs u out of the blue?
Why do u think u are afraid of female close contact?
2007-09-12 21:52:32 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Personally, I love females. But I am into men. Females are fun to be around.
Plus, they have boobs. They are amusing to watch.
2007-09-20 02:35:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-18 09:30:27 · answer #2 · answered by tarvin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG, I'm not the only one! A hug doesn't bother me. When a girl found out I'm gay tonight, she hugged me. I wasn't expecting it. Eh, not that big of a deal. I was laying in the bed the other day and this girl laying all over me. It made me uncomfortable, not afraid. I don't know why. I guess it just feels slightly sexual. I'm not attracted to girls at all, so I don't want any thing from them. I was practicing my drag dancing with some girls and that didn't bother me because I was all over them.
2007-09-12 22:14:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well think of it this way, I'm assuming you're straight ~
How do you feel when close physical contact with guys? What about surprise hugs from guys?
I personally don't mind light hugs and such but that's as far as I'd go. To be honest, unless they were a close friend I wouldn't go further than that with a guy either (unless I was drunk... )
2007-09-12 22:04:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't bother me. When I was in school, I was a ladies man. I had several girlfriends. I even set a school record for the longest french kiss with my gf, at the time.
I don't mind affection of any kind...well, almost any kind. I hug many of my girl friends. I kiss them (on the cheek). We hold hands when we are goofing around. Just like girls do with each other. We are close enough to know what the boundaries are, and we respect each other not to cross them.
2007-09-13 03:38:24 · answer #5 · answered by Oberon 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know many gay guys. Not one of them is afraid of a hug from a woman. Some men, like some women, do not like the opposite sex. But that isn't as generalized as the entire gay community. There are always some people that you don't want to hug you regardless of your sex, age, orientation. I personally know there are some groups of people I have no desire to touch, nor do I want them touching me. It's only a preference, it isn't a fear.
2007-09-20 11:29:20 · answer #6 · answered by L.A. H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! well Im not, But most gay men love girls meaning as friendly love, I let girls hug me all the time and kiss on me, they love it.. And they do it because they know there is no sexually meaing of it, But most of the time there will just be kissing but no sexually contact, But no gay guys are not afraid of it...
2007-09-20 04:32:27 · answer #7 · answered by aaron l 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm a female, but I'm a psychologist who dealt mainly with gay male clients. Gay men are NOT 'afraid' of physical contact with females. They even occasionally have sex with females. They just 'prefer' to have sex with men, and they 'fall in love' with other men ... it's 'born in' ... but a 'good hug' from a female friend is as welcome as from any male friend ... I ought to know, I've hugged many friends, and have been hugged by them ... ALL OF THEM WERE GAY!
2007-09-12 22:00:55 · answer #8 · answered by Kris L 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's just a stereotype and a myth, that gays are all anti-girl. Many are married and have children. I think cute girls are fun to hold, so soft, and their bodies are fascinating. I think it's funny that I can masturbate a woman more effectively than most straight guys. Being gay simply means being attracted to guys but not to girls, not that girls repel us, or that we we're attracted to all guys, for that matter.
2007-09-19 09:44:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im a girl...a straight one, but would like to but in and answer this question.
i know of someone not afraid but just dont want to have sex with a girl..
but i know of a gay guy who are looking forward not only on having physical contact with a girl but also of having her tasted in sense...you know how.
2007-09-12 22:15:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Close contact is okay, as long as I know and trust the girl and it is in no way sexual.
But if a girl I don't know touches me in any way, it makes my skin crawl.
Or if a female friend jokingly grabs my rear or my front, it makes me feel dirty.
2007-09-12 23:06:03 · answer #11 · answered by Barney Blake 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋