I have been friends with her since 7th grade (now senior). she has bee haging out with this girl a lot and i figured she gota newn best fried. she became obsessed with her and decided to tell people she was bi today. they have bee toether for 4 das. idk what to do! shes in my dancne class that starts tomorrow. and in one of my classes. helppp
2007-09-12 17:15:24 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
IT'S MORE AWKWARD THAN ANYTHING SHE HASN'T TOLD ME PERSONALLY YET..AND IM LIKE POSITVE SHE DOESNT LIKE ME
2007-09-12 18:09:31 · update #1
i have a friend thats bi and its wierd at first but if this person is truely ur friend then just try to look past the fact that thier bi and be friends again and if u feel uncomfortable around her then i guess her being bi is more importan to u than ur guys freindship
2007-09-12 18:14:10 · answer #1 · answered by hannah r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"... idk what to do!" ??
If she is truly your "best friend," you will seek to understand and unconditionally, accept her as she defines herself. She is still the same person you have, since 7th grade, called your "friend." She is simply allowing you to see parts of her that have not been available to you at the time.
Maybe there is something about you that is "different" than those in mainstream culture. In respect to being accepted based on that aspect of yourself, think about how you wish to be treated by those who claim to love you most.
For some of us, the world sometimes feels like a shaming, unsafe, harsh place to be. Only, thru connections with those who truly love and support us do some find shelter from life's storms, as well as self acceptance and esteem. These are the times when friendships are tested and we learn "what we're made of" and which of those around us are genuine loved ones. I hope that you will find a way to continue your close friendship. Good Luck!
2007-09-12 18:01:13 · answer #2 · answered by livingwell 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So what? She's your friend isn't she? She's still the same person she always has been only now she admits a secret she's probably been holding for a long time. One of my best guys friends is gay and we're really tight. It doesn't matter. Why are people so discriminating! I'm not lesbian or bi or anything but I respect people who are. It's not a disease or anything. Love is about love, not gender, so let it be!
2007-09-12 17:57:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
How wonderful for her!
So many women have "bi" leanings and are following through with their desires. Just know that if you are not -- that you should not feel threatened. Believe me, no one is interested in someone who is ... not interested! Keep her as a friend, she needs you.
2007-09-12 17:49:22 · answer #4 · answered by wrathofkublakhan 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you are a true friend you would support your friends sexuality and continue with your normal everyday lifes..dont treat her any different..maybe even when you get sometime sit down and talk to her about it
2007-09-12 17:32:56 · answer #5 · answered by shina_ma_booboo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You dont have to do anything. If she is happy as her friend you should be happy for her I think.
2007-09-12 17:27:47 · answer #6 · answered by Flying Spagetti Monster 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What would you have to do different?
2007-09-12 17:58:26 · answer #7 · answered by And For A Moment I Am Happy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋