I'm currently a junior in college(3 hours from home), and have a boyfriend who's also in college. My freshman year here, i had dozens of friends, always something to do. Now that we're a little older we've drifted apart (some dropped out, moved to different cities, just lost touch). Lately, I've been depressed feeling like i really don't have many friends to hang out with. All of the people i consider friends have boyfriends and girlfriends (as do i) and we devote all our time to that person as well as school and/or work. I see lots of people in their close knit groups of friends and find myself getting jealous that i dont have the same kind of small network. I'm getting involved in new clubs on campus to try to meet new people, but i'm worried that it's too late in the game to make the "life-long" friends you meet when you're younger.
To those of you who are 20-something...do you notice this happening to you, or am I really alone on this one?
2007-09-12 17:14:49 · 5 answers · asked by niugirl1114 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
No, it's never too late to make life long friends. When I was growing up, my father was in the military and so we moved around a lot. I often wondered about the same thing. And you know... some of the best friends that I have made were not from school but those I worked with. You never know where you'll meet new friends.
Things do change as you get older but that doesn't mean you'll never stop meeting new people or making new friends. Having a long-term friendship doesn't mean it will last forever anyway. People change. People really change in their twenties so...don't worry keep going on the path you're on now and you'll find friends!
2007-09-12 17:43:59 · answer #1 · answered by Jasmine808 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you're not alone. i've friends who have their own cliques whom they've known like for the last 17 years and counting. and the friends i hang out with are the ones i've known in college, so it's like about 6 years or so. but i know what you mean, it's nothing compared to people you've known like forever.
don't fret about it. at least you have a boyfriend, it's not like you're worried how you're gonna get a guy, which i did but it's alright now. ;p
just be contented with what you have, and treasure them. you really only need like a couple of very good friends. and that's regardless of the length of time you've known them.
good luck! (:
2007-09-12 17:27:40 · answer #2 · answered by dinOgaL(: 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt worry, thats kind of how it is. Its not too late, i didnt even meet some of my best friends until i hit my 20s, and we are like family now.
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