This Guy like me for 3 years. (2 years in college, 1 year in different states)
His behavior (2 years in college)
1) He stared whenever he saw me
2) He came to where I worked everyday just to looked at me.
3) He tried to talk to me (We both was shy)
4) His friends told me he likes me
5) All his buddies and his brother seem to respect me
After I moved away..
6) He was very depressed and distress
7) He wrote the first poem about us. His poem claims he does not know where I was or what to do, but he loves and wait for my return.
I contacted him after I read his poem. I told him, I don't want a relationship because my life is so confused and unstable.
8) He lied to me that he has a girlfriend (he does not)
9) We decided to be friend and talked on facebook
9) He continues to wrote over 20 poems about me. His poems often express his sadness and long for me. (His poem are very specific and only talk about me and him)
10) He posted all his poems online
Does he like me?
2007-09-12 16:30:07 · 14 answers · asked by Hope 4 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
He never tell or show me he like me :(
2007-09-12 16:40:08 · update #1
I think you should be asking yourself, do I like him? He obviously has feelings for you. He probably lied to you because he was hurt about you not wanting a relationship. I think he really cares about you.
2007-09-12 16:42:15 · answer #1 · answered by Albatross 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't like you...
He is obsessed with you. I remember back in high school I felt the same way about a certain girl, and I realized as I matured that it was just plain creepy and that I should respect her decision not to date me.
It is sad that this guy is an adult now and cannot understand this, but you must understand that certain guys can be very stubborn.
If you like him, I'm sure that it will lead to a very complicated relationship, which will surely require a great deal of energy and time, but if it's what you want that proceed.
If not, tell him that you like him as 'just a friend' and that you can't see him as more than 'just a friend' right now. If he can't respect that, then stop talking to him and ignore him, he'll eventually understand.
2007-09-12 16:39:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If a man tells a lady that he has a girlfriend when he knows he don't it is a way of telling her (Hey, I know you don't like me, I want to know you better - so if I have a girlfriend you won't feel pressured into a relationship).
He is trying to tell you that he is madly in love with you, but feels that if he says that straight out that he will be let down. He is building your trust and hopes that it will go further then friendship.
This is just my opinion based on that I am 39 years old (married once) and a songwriter. This would be how I would feel considering what you told me.
2007-09-12 16:41:43 · answer #3 · answered by palerider_2006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the obvious answer is yes... maybe a little too much. It sounds like he is a little unstable and I would be careful about this. Be very clear in how you communicate with him if you don't want a relationship and don't like him. I know you want to be nice and let him down easy, but that can really make things worse since guys get really screwed up interpreting the mixed signals that girls don't even know they are sending.
2007-09-12 16:35:52 · answer #4 · answered by chicagoshooter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He loves you. He just can't or is incapable of showing that he does. There could be a barrier which prevents him from telling you he loves you. If he is writing you a poem he is in deep. Tell him there will be no rejection. You love him and want to try and make a go from the connection that you both clearly have. Take off the masks and give it a shot. Good Luck
2016-05-18 02:40:01 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of all people you know the answer to this...and just want some feed back. The real question should be what do you feel about him? Looks like the ball is in your court, and you've drawn the lines.......how should he feel? What should he do? Does he have a chance with you, or should he be asking the question you did? Be honest......now ya know the answer? Yeah I thought so.
2007-09-12 16:40:07 · answer #6 · answered by Sage 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy is crazy and obsessive. Seems more like a stalker or some rapist killer. Better stay away from this guy...unless you like him. Seems like you were stringing him around for all these years so theres probably a chance that you do like him. Give it a try. But be careful.
2007-09-12 16:37:50 · answer #7 · answered by teknique 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he is in love with you and since you are not with him he is getting his feelings out for you through his poetry
which is a rare quality among the male species
2007-09-12 16:34:35 · answer #8 · answered by stacy r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, but he also seems very needy. Be careful of that kind of relationship; it might work, but it won't be easy.
2007-09-12 16:35:31 · answer #9 · answered by dukefenton 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you kidding me!!!! He is only showing every sign that there could possibly be!!! Of course he likes you.
2007-09-12 16:37:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋