is it normal or there is somthing wrong with me
2007-09-12 16:14:17 · 21 answers · asked by Sam 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
i don't take any meds and i have no history of sexual or any other type of abuse
2007-09-13 18:20:17 · update #1
is having no sexual desire Okay with you? are you content with your life and just asking out of sheer curiosity?
sometimes it just takes that right person to come along to make you realize you are ready to bring that part of life and relationships into your life.
i say if you are content with life the way it is then dont complicate it by worrying about sex....
2007-09-19 14:29:55 · answer #1 · answered by johnnys_angel_82 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you didn't say whether you are male or female but in either case you shouldn't be concerned. While sexual desire is completely normal for mature adults it is not necessarily abnormal if it does not occur at a particular age. It will happen eventually I assure you. Try practicing self masturbation once in a while even if there is no desire for it maybe you will develop that desire.
2007-09-20 02:52:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are a number of factors that can effect sexual desire including stress, fatigue, hormone levels and even your satisfaction with your relationship. The best thing you can do for yourself would be to consult with your physician. Do not feel nervous about asking your doctor for help, this is a common question from what I have read.
2007-09-20 11:43:44 · answer #3 · answered by Penny D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would you worry too much of having a sexual desire? would you rather prefer to be sexually active as others do?
answer these questions first and try to evaluate yourself before you do something...
and having no sexual desire at all is pretty normal, though there'll come a certain time that you'll feel your hormones are into a high level, that is when you found a perfect partner :-)
2007-09-20 11:01:58 · answer #4 · answered by robin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on your life situation.... I am 25, 2 kids one husband and have not had a sexual desire in 5 years...normal forme and millions of other people!
2007-09-12 23:20:40 · answer #5 · answered by Christal 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, there's nothing wrong with you. You are probably going through a stage in your life where there are other things more important to you, i.e. your career taking off, planning overseas travel, etc. Or you could be stressed.
2007-09-18 09:26:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Funny... I'm 22....w/ no sexual desire for 3 years.....I have 4 yr old daughter and husband....hopefully someone gives you good advice i can use too.
2007-09-12 23:23:27 · answer #7 · answered by ME 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You could have low levels of testosterone, more common in men in their 40's but can be tested with a blood check. If you are also depressed easily it's likely. Treatable easily. Possible ate your age if you used steroids in your teens but can happen without that.
2007-09-12 23:23:07 · answer #8 · answered by Sid B 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No I don't think so. You might want to look at what makes you excited. I know this is awful, but try looking at pornography and see what you like.
If the guy is the problem, i.e. he can't preform right, slow him down during sex and tell him what he's doing wrong.
Both men and women can and should enjoy sex. Depression can impact your sex drive severely.
2007-09-12 23:20:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Humm. It could be that your hormones are out of wack or just bored with sex in general. It is normal to get turned off to sex but if you are concerned see your doctor like a ob/gyn or urologist.
2007-09-12 23:20:27 · answer #10 · answered by Amy C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋