i haven't had sex yet, but i'm considering it. i'm kinda nervous tho. do guys care what it looks like? do they like hair or no hair? also i have a big labia im so worried they will make fun of me. i'm not gonna do it with someone unless i trust them completely, but i'm still worried what if they dont like what it looks like??
2007-09-12 16:00:15 · 15 answers · asked by N4Y4 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Relax no guy is going to laugh at you. What are the chances that you think you are going to laugh at him?? It's like that.
Most guys prefer a little hair. Not the amazon jungle. Not the sahara desert. Just a neatly trimmed meadow.
Keeps the lights low or even off, if that's what you are comfortable with. Guys used to porno may expect studio lighting and an extreme closeup, but that has nothing to do with real life.
Have fun!
2007-09-12 16:09:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 2⤋
One way to think about it is this - are you going to laugh at a guy if he's not shaped exactly the way you imagined, or if he's a bit bushy, or has a weird vein? I doubt it. If you are with a person you trust and love, and they feel the same about you, they are going to think you are the most beautiful women they've ever seen. Don't give another thought to the size of your labia. Men love women of all shapes and sizes. We all know what the gals in Playboy look like, but I guarantee you that any man you ask would rather be with a woman he loves than a so-called "perfect" girl in a magazine any day.
One thing I will say though, is that some guys are put off a bit by a lot of hair. (On the other hand, though, some men love a natural woman.) My advise would be to keep things neatly trimmed until you find out what he likes best - but never do anything you're not comfortable with just to please your man.
2007-09-12 23:20:04 · answer #2 · answered by Rachel C 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hair is unattractive and a turn off - make sure you get a brazilian wax or something to sort it out.
Big labia is really sexy so you have nothing to worry about there. To be honest all girl's bits are attractive and yours will be no exception. You can have the confidence of knowing that when a guy looks at it he will be turned on by what he sees.
2007-09-13 07:18:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You have big labia, in comparison to whom...women in porn?
I have seen before and after shots of labiaplasty surgery and the their was NOTHING wrong with the before pictures.
Enjoy your labia, they are yours. Women need to define and nurture their own genital self image and not worry about what other people think. Find someone special and I bet he will enjoy them.
2007-09-13 05:05:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey dont worryy.. i wondered the same thing.. i have a big labia too lol i love my bf very much and he makes me feel comfortable whenever were intimate and says everything about me is beautiful even my uneven labias. lol so think about it this way if your with the right guy hes not going to make you feel embarassed and besides its just a vagina. its pretty ugly already but i dont think guys really care. theyll just be happy to actually see one lol
2007-09-12 23:06:40 · answer #5 · answered by Mandy 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I have large labia too...like read my lips size!
I always thought my vagina was ugly, but hubby lets me know he loves me just the way I am.
We are all made differently, but I think guys like it when we are different down there too.
You should wait until you trust someone completely, but sure your man will love it
good luck
2007-09-13 01:07:40 · answer #6 · answered by patriciajean1962 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
like every other part of anatomy, theres someone out there that loves every variety at every extreme, just about.
do you mean big inner or outer labia?
some guys hate shaved bare. some like partial, some hate "natural" hair, ect.
if it really bothers you then there is such a thing nowadays called Cosmetic Gynocology, both for adjusting/improving/customizing/balancing vaginal proportions and such.
but I wouldn't worry about it. I reccomend trying shaving and such, I mean it'll grow back and all, if you don't like it. and at least you'll know more of what YOU prefer. some WOMEN like being bare more.
2007-09-12 23:12:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
i've seen questions like this on yahoo..and most of the men that answered said they actually prefer more labia because more fun to give oral or something..and adds sensation..just what i read
2007-09-12 23:55:19 · answer #8 · answered by Taylor 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If this is your main concern when it comes to your first sex experience, trust me you are not ready yet.
Most guys in your age group has not seen enough to know the good from the bad or the ugly (smile).
There are no ugly vagina's.
JS
2007-09-12 23:24:15 · answer #9 · answered by john B 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you're having these worries, you're probably not ready to start having sex. It involves way too many emotions and the majority of young girls can't handle them. Having sexual urges doesn't mean you are emotionally or mentally ready. When you're ready, you won't be questioning if you are or aren't.
2007-09-13 00:38:21 · answer #10 · answered by atlmetalchick 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋