well i do it a lot. once a day but almost every day. it's hard for me to go even a week without it. i've tried to quit but it's like i just can't stop, i don't like myself when i do it. i'm also scared that i will go to hell for doing it, especially for so long.
2007-09-12 15:25:39 · 21 answers · asked by Bob J 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
Dont be ashamed. Its a natural body need. Everybody does it. You will not go to hell for this.
2007-09-12 16:47:47 · answer #1 · answered by apha_barrelracer 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your guilt stems from your parents views on sex. Never should a person feel bad about something so natural. Has anyone other than your friends ever talke openly and honestly with you about sex? When I figured this trick out I would masturbate every chance I could. Up to 8-10 a day. There is nothing wrong with it! Heck I'm 41 now and still do it sometimes several times a day.
2007-09-12 22:35:10 · answer #2 · answered by pappyld04 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
ur not addicted. dont worry.
its hard for ALL guys to go without it for a week.
and the only reason you dont like yourself when you do it is because you're "psyching" yourself out...making yourself think that its wrong. its not.
And the bible never says that its wrong. (if this is a mainly religious thing)
it said that, in the book of Genesis, that Onan, whose brother died childless, had the responsibitly of impregnating his brother's wife. but onan didnt think this was right so in the middle of "getting busy" he pulled out and "spilled his seed on the ground".
the church took this as anytime a man's seed didnt end its journey in a vagina then it was a sin and agianst nature.
but you're not going to Hell.
keep it fun.
2007-09-12 22:50:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Obviously you're what 14? Uh OH! you're NORMAL!! Everyone wacks off! U ain't going to hell! And there is NO! reason to quit!! It's ok! B happy you have 2 arms! Just think how tired 1 arm would get!! LOL
2007-09-12 22:45:55 · answer #4 · answered by b.douglaswyatt 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Whatever you do don't promise God you will stop. I made that horrible mistake and then I became angry at God because I was always horny which always lead to ... well you know. The mind and body conflict.. spirit verses flesh. It's a lovely thing indeed and it's part of being human.. Be thankful you are human and enjoy your quest for understanding and may God be graceful to you and your little friend. or big whichever it may be.
2007-09-12 22:37:35 · answer #5 · answered by Kris_B 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Normal especially for guys hun. You won't go to hell; god gave you that penis. You can touch it all you want and enjoy it's fun. Like the guys said up there it's relieves stress and what better way to do so!
2007-09-12 22:36:46 · answer #6 · answered by Random 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with masturbating, even once daily or more. Rub one out! It can relieve stress, tension, and help you sleep if you do it before bed. Just lube up, especially if you're on a more-than-once-per-day regimen to avoid friction burns.
2007-09-12 22:31:50 · answer #7 · answered by RIck T 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I view it as a God given act to enjoy my body. It keeps us healthier by doing it and so we are protecting the temple that is our body. Don't worry about it and don't feel guilty. Do you really think God would give us such a good thing and make it a sin to use it?
2007-09-13 16:04:32 · answer #8 · answered by Solo 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are not really addicted to masturbating, in reality you are overly in love with yourself. Take a break from you and find someone to share you with (smile).
Stop disliking yourself for doing it, after all when you are making love to yourself - at least the person you are making love to you care about you and you know exactly how they feel.
How's that for love without complaints from your partner.
JS
2007-09-12 22:36:33 · answer #9 · answered by john B 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
A lot of men do it that often, just try not to let it conflict with your daily routine/life. If it does conflict significantly, then you may have a problem. Also hell only exist in your mind so you shouldn't worry about that.
2007-09-12 22:29:31 · answer #10 · answered by toblerone.king 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋