I met my best guy friend 2 years ago. We started out just buddies. We live in different states now and we've been talking every day for the past month or so. I guess we flirt a lot and he tells me he loves me all of the time, and I tell him the same. Here comes the drama. He and his wife separated a year ago (she and I are also friends) and six months into their separation, he got a girl pregnant. He was dating this girl but she left him and went back to her fiance. I know, huge soap opera. My dilemma is, if I tell him how I feel and he doesn't feel the same it might make things awkward. Another issue for me is adding to the already continually increasing drama that is his life. An estranged wife, baby's momma, and a girlfriend? So, do I keep my mouth shut and just keep telling myself that this too shall pass or do I jump in head first and pray I float?
2007-09-12 15:21:19 · 3 answers · asked by naenaehasheart 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
It sounds like you need some new friends. At least don't complicate the situation by adding any new twists to your relationship with him. I think you should chill and give this some time and see where things lead.
2007-09-12 15:44:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you really really want a relationship with a man who separates from his wife, does not have enough common sense to use protection when he has sex with another woman, and now has an illegitimate child? I'd rethink things if I were you. Stay friends with him if you want, but you don't need all of that as part of your personal life.
2007-09-12 22:34:59 · answer #2 · answered by old beatnik 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You might want to stay friends a little longer and see if he can get his life back on track. Then if all ends well jump for it. (^_^)
2007-09-12 22:33:22 · answer #3 · answered by <3 Kitten <3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋