i just married my husband june 15 2007 and its like i never want to be anywhere without him..i am 18 and he is 23... i have had feelings for him since i was 14...so can someone please help me...and give tell me thing to keep our marrige alive
2007-09-12 15:04:02 · 14 answers · asked by Stephanie Bryant 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Everyone is different. My wife is the same,& I love it, But usually this sufficates the other person. Use your own judgement, & see if sometimes he needs a little space from time to time.
2007-09-12 15:19:44 · answer #1 · answered by nhuvi j 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Are you suffering from some sort of anxiety disorder? This could be the reason that you don't want to go out without him. I have panic attacks and a touch of agoraphobia and my partner is my 'safe person' as in if I'm feeling panicky, I need him around even in the grocery store otherwise I'll have a full blown panic attack! It's really rather sad, but that's anxiety for ya! If that's your issue, there is help out there and some medications worth trying, so that you won't have to depend on him or anyone else so much.
I do think it's important for couples to have alone time and time away from each other with friends or something. Give each other space.
2007-09-12 22:13:07 · answer #2 · answered by skunk pie 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I would stop worrying about what is normal. Apparently it is normal for you so don't sweat it! Just be Happy. Its perfectly normal to be crazy about someone you just married so ENJOY! and also GOOD LUCK! Although I would watch that you don'nt become too clinghy because to some men that is total turn off. Try to have your own life a little bit too.
2007-09-12 22:15:20 · answer #3 · answered by TABBY 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well I'm not married, but engaged and I feel that way about my man. I want to spend every evening with him (as we do not live together yet). But I will tell you that men are sometimes attracted to women who have their own thing going on. So don't smother him and even though yall are married, find separate interests so that when yall do see each other, you will have something to talk about and ask about.
2007-09-12 22:11:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Listen sweetie. You guys love each other, but we all need space sometimes. No, there's nothing wrong with wanting to be with your husband, but when it becomes your reason for being, then you have a problem. Don't smother him. That's all. No one likes that. Just consider that on occasion. Sounds like you're in love. That's wonderful. Good luck.
2007-09-12 22:13:37 · answer #5 · answered by B. Nowlin 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'm married and I'm the same way I love being where ever he is, we are currently having problems, but still I can't stay away I love him so much and just want to spend every waking moment with him... I think it's normal.
2007-09-12 22:35:29 · answer #6 · answered by Brecken's Mommy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I was like that when I married my husband at 18...now I just can't wait for a moment for myself w/out him..lol
2007-09-12 22:18:20 · answer #7 · answered by ME 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is nice that you want to spend all your time with him but not healthy. You need to find your own time and entertainment or your relationship will get very boring. the fact that you are very young wil also have an impact as you grow into your 20s.
do not get dependant on him for your happiness or it will not last.
2007-09-12 22:13:44 · answer #8 · answered by just me 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You sound as though you are extremely insecure about your relationship and that you dont trust him. You've got to give him the benefit of the doubt and actually grow up!
2007-09-12 22:27:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
you to are very yound and married so it is understandable for you to want to be around your husband all the time, but everyone needs to have space at one time or another okay.
best of luck
2007-09-12 22:18:31 · answer #10 · answered by mmurray001 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋