2007-09-12 14:28:50 · 15 answers · asked by mrblonde3056 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I have been married more than 14 years, and sometimes when my wife walks through the door I am still utterly speechless just like the first time I saw her. I still get the butterflies and am more than infatuated with her. It really depends on the people. It can last as long as your love does.
2007-09-12 15:26:33 · answer #1 · answered by HUH? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not long, enjoy it while it lasts. Once it is gone you never get it back. I shouldn't say never. Every once in a while you feel it again for a second or two.
The infatuation doesn't last any longer than 2 years though. After two years with someone all the new dies off and then you really start the living together and learning to love one another on a different level.
2007-09-12 14:58:58 · answer #2 · answered by momof2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the couple. I have been with my man for a year and 5 months and i still feel like that sometimes. Some people call it the "honeymoon phase" and they say it's all downhill from there. I disagree with these negative thinkers. As long as you make a point to keep it exciting and new, then it will.
2007-09-12 14:59:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
oh god, isn't that the best? i'd kill to feel that again. it usually lasts a while, if memory serves. at least until you're comfortable with one another. wouldn't it be great if there were a pill for that?
if this is how you're feelilng now, enjoy the hell out of it. make it last as long as possible.
2007-09-12 14:35:47 · answer #4 · answered by racer 51 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is the best feeling in the world and 1 1/2 years into a relationship i still get it every time i see him
2007-09-12 14:39:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
about a year, for a normal romantic inclined person. It is sad that it does dissipate and mostly turns to fondness as the years go by. But, love is like that.
2007-09-12 14:37:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
last's for a couple of months.. But now it comes and goes..Been married for almost 10 yrs together for 12...There's still alot of times we look at eachother and have that comfortable feeling and smile..butterfiles still !!!
2007-09-12 14:43:56 · answer #7 · answered by truthgrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's like the tide, it comes and goes, but we just passed 41 yrs and I can't wait to get home to her and spend our evenings together.
2007-09-12 14:36:03 · answer #8 · answered by old beatnik 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
it can last for a long time, over years i experienced it myself. its the sweetest thing to have those butterflies if the other one has it as well.
2007-09-12 14:40:03 · answer #9 · answered by not this way 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i still actually get it and we have been together for 2and a half yrs!!!
its not all the time, only when he drops by my work or calls me on my work number...i think cos its unexpected.....
but its the best feeling in the world!!!!
2007-09-12 15:14:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋