how did it change your relationship?
2007-09-12 14:17:04 · 11 answers · asked by fibr 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
it didn't change us at all. we're still the same people we were before marriage. yea, it can be fun. it can also be frustrating and exhausting. marriage is hard work. emotional work. is it worth it? absolutely. married 24 yrs this oct.
2007-09-12 14:24:50 · answer #1 · answered by racer 51 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
It can be fun! But it isn't all fun and games. You have to give and take, do things you may not want to do at times and bite your tongue when you're doing it. I've only been married two years this October and I lived with my husband for 9 months before we got married so I already knew what it was going to be like for the most part. I've had my moments where I thought why did I ever get married and wondered if I did the right thing or if I did it because I thought it was the right thing. So marriages will last and some won't, just depends on your outlook of life. Good luck to you if you're getting married I hope all goes well!
2007-09-12 22:00:11 · answer #2 · answered by ~Amanda~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The idea of marriage is fun the thought of playing house and having the man you love and adore with you is actually fun for awhile until reality sets in and the bills and the arguments start. Then the kisses stop forget about going out and having a good time that comes later after nagging him to take you out he might do it once maybe twice within a years time.But as the years roll by and you get use to the day to day routine you start to enjoy yourself.If you can get through the first 2 years of marriage (not living together that is totally different) you have a good chance of making it.
2007-09-12 21:36:40 · answer #3 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the person, mutual understanding and communication. I think its better to know the person very well before getting married. I got married at 21 with out knowing my husband very well, as we both belong to a conservative culture. After marriage, I realized things were not as fun as they seem to be before marriage, as marriage is about sharing resposnibilities and taking care of each other, and spending money wisely. If, one's partner is not doing it, then life is like hell, and its better to be single.
2007-09-12 21:28:24 · answer #4 · answered by cute-pie25 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
marriage changes everything, i was married twice. first time was the worst. he was so good to me for 6 yrs. then i married him and then he started beating me. wouldn't let me have friends, or even see my mom.
second time was great then he started the same thing. when i said i do. i should have said i won't.
not all marriages are like that. but all relationships change allot when you say i do.
2007-09-12 21:29:10 · answer #5 · answered by tabatha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ever since i was little i couldnt wait to get married...i got married in march 2006...i was 22, he was 26.
we had only been together for a yr before we were married but it was the best yr of my life.
before we were married, we used to do all the romantic things etc and when we got married, our lives changed but for the better.
it felt so natural to live with him, it actually felt weird to even think about sleeping at my mums house again!!!!
marriage is so cool, you learn how to juggle work, bills, cooking, cleaning, alone time, couple time, family time etc but its worth it.
you always have your partner there for you.
marriage does take work but if you and your hubby arent willing to put in the hard yards, then marriage isnt for you.
it takes love, commitment, fidelity, trust, honestly, communication, respect, and alot of self sacrifice but its all rewarding at the end of the day.
2007-09-12 21:40:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
It still is fun , I love sitting and eating cheesey nachos in front of the tv with my wifey, and we comment on how we love eating this food, argue that the sauce is too hot or cold, the chips are stale, the sofa is uncomfortable, the remote doesn`t work, the lights are too bright, I`ve got a headache, yup, marriage is grand!
LOL, It`s what you make it!!!
2007-09-12 21:27:40 · answer #7 · answered by I tell it like it is 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It is fun but sometimes it sucks and it changed pretty quick like he used to be all kissy kissy now its like get away lol but marriage is good (im not married) but ive been living with him for 2 years:D
2007-09-12 21:25:41 · answer #8 · answered by ♥ OLi♣ 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Marriage is fun if you make it fun, It's what you put into it and it takes two.
2007-09-12 21:26:32 · answer #9 · answered by jefflc34 1 · 3⤊ 1⤋
As soon as I said "I do" the sex slowly stopped, the cooking ended, and the nagging began. 8 years later, I'm divorced and broke because of her. If you get married, make sure he's the one, and don't change.
2007-09-12 21:25:47 · answer #10 · answered by TXboy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋