Why does he think I am being manipulative? Is there anything I can do about it?

Question

My ex, with whom I am trying to be friends, because we were friends before we went out, is acting strangely. We recently started talking. We had one very nice conversation--maybe a little flirtation--but not much. He has a girlfriend, and I am trying just to be a friend, even though I resent the situation, because I said I was going to come back and try and work things out, and now I have and now he has a girlfriend. Anyways, the next day, my best friend invited him to a wedding I am coming back to NYC to go to by mistake. He sent the email to him by mistake!!! He accepted immediately. I was nervous about this. This has been long-distance, and he would have no other way of seeing me. However, when I called my ex to chat a few days later, and he acted strange. His blog made it sound as if his gf and he had been fighting--maybe re me--and had then made up. Anyways, he later wrote me a note saying he did not appreciate I had been manipulating him. What does he mean? What is going on?

Answer 1

You said in your own answer she mistakenly set the e-mail to him, of course he's going to think you did it just so you can see him. Atleast thats the best I can come up with. Ether way, anywayzin the fact that you still want him for yourself, doesn't make this any easier becasue I'm more then sure you act like you do. Also realize he isn't much to be aiming for, atleast not to you, he strait dised you, then didn't even actually explain himself to you, which would of kept this all from happen in the frist place. Definetly someone you shouldn't beat yourself up about, so what if he thinks you manipulated him, he forgot about you completely. Anyone needs to be upset its you! Espacially, again, he could of talk to you about why he didn't wait, did he? Guess he doesn't care about anything but making feel bad, wow great catch you had there....