besides telling him ur pregnant
2007-09-12 12:24:15 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Um, you don't "get" someone to marry you, they choose to do it or they don't. You can't (or you shouldn't if you're a decent human being) manipulate someone into getting married if they don't want to.
Do you really want to marry someone who doesn't want to willingly run down the aisle with you? Seriously. Why settle?
2007-09-12 12:30:40 · answer #1 · answered by Take A Test! 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
well, telling someone i was pregnant WOULD NOT be a way of getting them to marry me. If they want to marry you then they WILL marry you, you CANNOT MAKE someone marry you. You might want to just sit down and talk to your fiancee about your future together, maybe he has different plans than you.
2007-09-12 12:29:03 · answer #2 · answered by Andrea 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't. He wants to marry you. It may have nothing to do with you. Besides, why would you want to marry someone you have to force to marry you? I don't mean to sound cruel, but we always make up excuses for men or women. I think sometimes the adage "he is just not that into you" applies. Sorry!
2007-09-12 12:29:05 · answer #3 · answered by brwneyes 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't lie about being pregnant. That is not a good way to start off a marriage. Lies and deceit have no place in a relationship. Sit him down and ask him when you will start planning the wedding (You said he WAS your fiance). If he was totally against marriage he would not have asked you in the first place.
2007-09-12 12:28:20 · answer #4 · answered by Ryan's mom 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am on the complete opposite side of this ...mine won't give me time to breathe without asking when we will get married if i want to marry him or if i am ever gonna ...give him a break ok..just a little time of peace and quiet might be what is in store
2007-09-12 12:34:56 · answer #5 · answered by quest4knowledge 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if he's your fiance that would mean that you are already engaged? Start booking appts. to look at churches/halls and reception sites... Get serious about setting a date and planning a wedding.. If he's NOT ready than give back the ring and move on...
2007-09-12 12:29:08 · answer #6 · answered by pebblespro 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well thats a trap telling your pregnant , he may RUN as you betrayed him ! gee's he has to love ya enough to know he wants to spend the rest of his life with you without being trapped or forced into anything ! i know your engaged but you think thats to make you happy ??? i dunno you cant force this on him its not right its a mutual agreement when both are ready not just you . if you cant wait for him then leave :) and for god sake do not fall pregnant to make him you will only start your life as a lie, and you will be filled with guilt !
hang in there and wait talk to him and move on if you have to but its BOTH decisions . sorry
good luck
2007-09-12 12:29:51 · answer #7 · answered by gemma b 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him about this. He already proposed and gave you a ring, you're almost there. Maybe he's saving money, maybe he's waiting for a promotion at work or a better job.
2007-09-12 12:33:36 · answer #8 · answered by Jdude 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, the best part is the engagement (Big step), have fun beign engaged!! ; you should just wait,And, If he didnt want to marry you he wouldnt have proposed =]...Just be patient...Trust me I've been there...
2007-09-12 12:34:23 · answer #9 · answered by BB 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please don't get pregnant to try to get a guy to marry you. That doesn't work. You wait for him to ask, or if you're not old fashioned you ask him to marry you.
2007-09-12 12:28:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋