This Guy like me for 3 years. (2 years in college, 1 year in different states)
His behavior (2 years in college)
1) He stared whenever he saw me
2) He came to where I worked everyday just to looked at me.
3) He tried to talk to me (We both was shy)
4) His friends told me he likes me
5) All his buddies and his brother seem to respect me
After I moved away..
6) He was very depressed and distress
7) He wrote the first poem about us. His poem claims he does not know where I was or what to do, but he loves and wait for my return.
I contacted him after I read his poem. I told him, I don't want a relationship because my life is so confused and unstable.
8) He lied to me that he has a girlfriend (he does not)
9) We decided to be friend and talked on facebook
9) He continues to wrote over 20 poems about me. His poems often express his sadness and long for me. (His poem are very specific and only talk about me and him)
10) He posted all his poems online
Does he like me?
2007-09-12 11:51:58 · 11 answers · asked by Hope 4 in Health ➔ Men's Health
P.S. He has never told or shown me directly that he likes me.
I don't know why...
Excuse me for my poor grammar. English is my second language.
Thank you for your kindness.
2007-09-12 11:53:15 · update #1
He is "infatuated" with you, which is not necessarily a good thing. If you two haven't really talked or been out together, then he has an "image" of what you are like in his mind. If reality meets fantasy, then there could be issues. It's starting to sound "stalkerish" so watch yourself.
It is good that you have been honest and told him you don't want a relationship. That must mean you don't have the "right" feelings for him.
While it may feel cruel and such you should probably break any connections that he may have to you (email addresses, phone #'s, etc.) He'll get over it in time.
Just don't feel responsible to him or his actions.
2007-09-12 12:54:27 · answer #1 · answered by psifry 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He loves you. He just can't or is incapable of showing that he does. There could be a barrier which prevents him from telling you he loves you. If he is writing you a poem he is in deep. Tell him there will be no rejection. You love him and want to try and make a go from the connection that you both clearly have. Take off the masks and give it a shot. Good Luck
2007-09-12 13:10:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes he likes you!! But if you don't like him back, then don't force yourself to have a relationship with him. That is the same way that my husband acted before he got comfortable enough to tell me he liked me. I have LOTS of poems that sound just like the ones this guy is writing to you. I am not telling you want to do but I finally gave in so he would "get over me" and 9 years later we are married and we are expecting a baby in February!! Good luck!!
2007-09-12 11:59:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'll give the best advice I can possibly think of.
Confront him.
I understand that you are shy, but I think it would truly be in your best interest to talk to him about this, instead of us. Especially if you care about him.
And what's the very worst that could happen?
He could say yes, or he could say no. Either way, you know where you stand and can begin to work towards a solution.
P.S. Your grammar is actually not bad at all. :)
2007-09-12 12:05:22 · answer #4 · answered by lioness112649 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG he adores you!!!!!! how can you not see that?
he sounds very sensitive. almost a bit obsessed about you.it is a bit extreme if things never got of the ground with you 2. but it is also verysweet of him.
what do you want? do you like him? do you want a relationship with him? if you did, he sounds like he would be very loving, but very dependant on you. to write all those poems when nothing happened. he has a lot of courage to be so open about his love for you. you should be up front about the situation with him as it sounds like he is in pain and misses you very much. either connect with him or let him go, for his sake.
2007-09-12 12:03:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In spite of everyone else's answers and advice, you've only asked one question:
"Does he like me?"
Yes, he likes you a great deal.
His actions speak more than he could possibly say.
Good luck.
2007-09-12 14:17:58 · answer #6 · answered by Bobby Jim 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He like you,but he sounds very childish and even effeminate. He's a grown man.....around 21? 22?
Regardless...he's acting like an adolescent. If thats what you like go for it.....
2007-09-12 12:26:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES!! He obviously does but is too nervous to tell you. He's telling you in disguise!!
2007-09-12 12:01:20 · answer #8 · answered by wave_thrower 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yah he definetly wants to have sex with you
2007-09-12 12:35:22 · answer #9 · answered by Pizza!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nooo. of course he does, why the hell would he write those poems for you?!
2007-09-12 12:47:05 · answer #10 · answered by rubyslippers93 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋