When is it time to tell a woman you're talking to that you're seeing multiple other women?

Answer 1

I think before things become sexual. That way, before she gets intimate with you, she's seen all your cards. Women appreciate honesty, just like everybody else. We don't want to be lied to.

Answer 2

When you ask her out. This is not as scary as it may sound, and it will actually help you score, but with the right person. Say "The truth is, I'm seeing a few different people right now, nothing serious, but I'd definitely like to get to know you better. Want to go out sometime and see if we click?"

This works on several levels. First, it's honest, so you score points for being a decent human being. Which you should be anyway, so there you go. Second, it shows her that you are honest...you now move up a few points in her regard. If she says no, so what? Move on. If she says yes, then you are guilt free to date her, boink her, whatever. Why lie, you can get everything you want while still being honest. I've told women straight out, 'I'm really not interested in anything more than tonight, but I'd love to take you home with me." You'd be surprised how often the truth works...

Answer 3

You should tell the person as soon as you are interested in seeing multiple people. Apparently, the one person is not enough for you. You should always keep it real that way they have a choice to deal with you or not. If you were always that way when you met the person and never told the person, they may never trust you ever when they find out. Always give the other person an option to walk away so that there is no drama. Put the shoe on the other persons foot and see how you would take it.

Answer 4

Each woman is different, but I think most of us would agree, we prefer being told from the beginning, from either the first few dates or before taking it up a notch, as it sets an understanding of the nature of the relationship.

However, there are some women whom even after you tell them that you are seeing others, will strategize to make it exclusive, they can become rather fastidious.
If I get thumbs down, so be it, but its the truth. :-)

Answer 5

I was just in this exact situation. I told the woman early on; and then she immediately sent me an e-mail with a laundry list of expectations for what I had to do if I expected to continue being with her.

But I suppose I put her in that position myself -- by telling her that I was seeing other women.

When a woman tells you "if you want to be my boyfriend, this is what I expect" really early on -- when you just start dating... it's kind of creepy. I wasn't even sure that I wanted to be with her.

Then being just her "friend" after an experience like that is weird. So that was it...I broke it off -- both as a friend and a potential lover.

Now I know: It's not a very wise move to tell her. I would just not tell her if I were you.

Answer 6

When you start seeing multiple women.

Answer 7

after you introduce yourself and before you ask her out. slip it into the conversation that you are in the dating game so she knows from the get go not to expect you to be exclusive. saves a lot of bull later

Answer 8

If you are an honest guy tell all the women you are seeing that you are not committing to any of them and you just want to be friends.
I hate guys that aren't honest-it ruins it for the good guys too.

Answer 9

It is time when you are tired of life, and you want to commit suicide by b*tch-slap.
Not much of a compliment, is it? I mean, who wants to hear that they are just another in a long string of conquests (or potential ones)? It's certainly not a booster of a girl's self esteem to know you just see her as another knot on the string until you find something better to do. Leading along a group of women is just about the most immature thing a guy can do. Try seeing just one woman at a time Don Juan.

Answer 10

I bet you would really throw a fit if after you confessed to seeing multiple other women, she told you about her multiple other boy friends.