you know how it goes. Everything is fine and grave until you get married...... thats when people become settled, fat , men mysteriously get erectile dysfunction and cheating occurs..... But when people just "live" without the marriage title those relationships seem to last longer......................................... Don t do it!
2007-09-12 10:52:29 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Cars & Transportation ➔ Motorcycles
My Harley and I have been together for over 30 years and we are both very happy.
2007-09-12 11:00:33 · answer #1 · answered by bill b 5 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Relationships are easier when you cohabitate. You have NO obligation to your partner. You always have an "out" -- even if you don't want out, the option still exists that you can "walk" whenever.
When marriage is introduced AFTER cohabitation it can be strangulating to your relationship because your relationship has revolved around having an escape or backdoor.
It's sad because a lot (not all) of good couples that could've made it through marriage can't because their relationship was based on false pretenses. My husband and I were able to make it through this phase because we were dedicated but I wish that we would've just gotten married before we cohabited it would've been a lot easier!
2007-09-12 14:27:12 · answer #2 · answered by caligirl_SC 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I guess you've got a point. I have seen trouble suddenly appear after a marriage. It's almost mysterious how it happens. The same two people, the same house, dog, car, etc. The only thing different is now there's a piece of paper. To be honest, I don't get it.
2007-09-13 10:06:34 · answer #3 · answered by Firecracker . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Neither. In right this moment's international, you are able to bail from the two difficulty.... human beings are committed to a minimum of one yet another without or with a paper. And in the event that they have been married, the finest and maximum inexpensive way out legally is by way of a mediating lawyer. Leaving is leaving.
2016-10-10 11:18:31 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why even cohabitate at all? Just stay single and hang out with "Palmela" for the rest of your life.. there's no erectile dysfunction there.
2007-09-12 11:52:48 · answer #5 · answered by JuDyLicious 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I've been married for 31 years and wouldn't think of just shacking up.
For one if you are living together you can't file joint incom tax returns so it would cost you more filing separately.
And you have the fringe benefit of sleeping together and raising a legitimate family.
2007-09-12 11:13:43 · answer #6 · answered by David T 6 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Well, with proper maintenance and regular oil changes you should have a happy and healthy relationship during..... wait a minute, isn't this motorcycle answers??
2007-09-12 13:45:39 · answer #7 · answered by bikermog 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Marriage would be better if you didn't have to cohabit. Just drop in to perform your husbandly duties.
2007-09-12 11:03:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
No...everything is 'grave' after marriage.
2007-09-12 11:00:30 · answer #9 · answered by BIKERSTAG 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There are a lot of married couples celebrating 50th anniversarys.
2007-09-12 10:56:30 · answer #10 · answered by ~ Floridian`` 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋