so theres this kid on my bus named james and he LIVES to make me mad and sad. he broke my favorite braclet on my birthday and today RUINED the chances with the guy i like. HE CONSTANTLY goes off on me and yells. and i cry when i get home. today he went too far he ruined chances with the guy i like by saying crap then my best friend stood up for me and he went off on her.
IM SICK OF IT!!!!!!!!! ignoring does not help so whats like one thing to say to make him stop FOREVER????????
THANKS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-09-12 08:50:55 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Fashion & Accessories
i know this is in the wrong section..but you guys help the best!! THANKS
2007-09-12 08:51:33 · update #1
Yeah I am the oldest of three brothers, our sister is the youngest child.
She used to get picked on constantly, then one day she just sort of snapped. Something inside of her brain stopped working for a few minutes and she became an animal.
She knocked a girl out that always teased her, with one punch (pretty impressive for a skinny girly girl).
About a year latter a boy tried to steal something from her & she grabbed a padlock and dented his face with it.
Hasn't had any drama since.
See the truth of it all is that you are a kid. As long as you don't kill the other kid you are okay. You aren't going to jail.
Violence solves all sorts of problems.
Take for instance our issues with the terrorist. What do we do about that? Kill and torture.
This kid is not going to be expecting anything from you. So do not hesitate. Next time he makes you really angry, just punch him in the nose, and don't stop until either he is knocked out or he is covered in blood.
Don't just hit him once. Hit him many many times in a row. This will give him no chance for him to recover. Do not stop until you know you have won (you will know).
After you have kicked his a s s he will not pick on you.
UNLEASH THE BEAST ! ! !
2007-09-12 09:00:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Oh, my gosh, the boy likes you. He does it to A. get your attention, which is obviously working, and B. ruin you chances with a guy, so you are free and he has a chance. You can either get back at him, ignore him, but that will probably make him try harder, I don't recommend either of these. My trick was to sit next to the boy with the crush on my ans be my sweetest so they get all flustered and ;eave you alone. And it's probably help to just get used to it, boys harass you to get your attention. It happened to me all through grade school and high school. There was one boy, of my boyfriends at the time now husband, closest friends, who would profess his love to me everyday on the bus ride home, this happened for an entire year. Of course this was only three years ago, my husband still gets a kick outta his friends drooling over me, I guess he feels special, I've never figured it out. Ohh well, I'm babbling, hope this helps!!
2007-09-12 16:06:18 · answer #2 · answered by EXPECTING 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, first of all, take a deep breath and calm down.
This kid obviousley knows this is upsetting you [which is wrong]. Seeing that it upsets you is probably egging him on so to speak. James apparently takes pleasure in seeing people sad or mad, there are just some people like that in the world for whatever reason. What you need to do is look James right in the eyes and say "Wow, James. Your life must be really pathetic for you to go around messing with mine. I don't deserve to be treated the way your treating me and if you don't stop I'm going to do something about it." If he laughs, go back to your seat and read a book, listen to your iPod, etc.
Another thing you could do is start being SUPER nice to him. Whenever you see him say "Hi James!! How are you?" your niceness will startle him and take him aback--guarenteed. I tried this with a girl who was being mean to me way back in 5th grade and she stopped.
If his awful behavior continues, tell the bus driver or someone else. I assume James does this to other people besides you, and if he doesn't the situation is even worse. Its you being singled out and harrassed. You need to tell someone if this situation doesn't get worked out.
2007-09-12 15:58:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Stand up to that kid and tell him to stfu! He has NO right to make your life miserable, ruining your chances with a boy you like was bad enough, but actaully breaking one of your possessions? That's taking it too far. Don't give him the power to make you cry, he's probably not loved as a child and has nothing else to do. I know it's really immature to yell back, but seriously, ignoring this kid won't help. Tell him off.
2007-09-12 15:55:24 · answer #4 · answered by RentHead 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have some people to tell!!! Your parents, his parents, the school councilor, and the bus driver. Somewhere along the line he will be made to stop. One more thing you can try is to say he is jealous and wants you for a girlfriend. Tell him this out loud, in front of his friends and everybody else. Good luck honey.
2007-09-12 15:58:22 · answer #5 · answered by curious connie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
god i hate that. happens to me too! too much. seriously just go off at him. next time he does something just say something like "what the hell?! why do you think you can do this?!" and if hes near you can shove him down or kick him in the groin or in the stomach or something then say "f**k off or i'll smack you next time!" just scare the crap out of him. guys are a lot different then girls, they cant just be told off...doesnt work. get physical.seriously. and if you get in trouble (which shouldnt happen cuz hes a guy and that would be majorly babyish of him) just say it was self defense. i hope i helped!!!!!!!! good luck!!! i really hope this guy fs off.
2007-09-12 17:15:55 · answer #6 · answered by Paris glamour 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did you ever think that HE likes YOU? boys in jr high and sometimes hs pick on girls they like. maybe you didn't give him a chance to be friends and now he taking it out on you. talk to the kid, instead of crying when he does something bad to you.
say hello to him first, before he has a chance to do something bad to you. don't let up. even if he makes nasty comments or starts calling you names. every day, just say hello to him and walk on your MERRY way. don't let him get to you. you be the bigger and mature person.
2007-09-12 15:59:36 · answer #7 · answered by ~*~ chiclets gum ~*~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stand up to him. He thinks he can get away with it cause your not doing anything to stop him. Don't be a pushover! Tell him to leave you the hell alone or you'll smack the chit out of him lol. Hell it worked for me when I was young. If it results to fighting, either way he will leave you alone after.
2007-09-12 15:55:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
first how old are you? he might like you....guys go through that weird and awkward stage.
i would let your parents know and stress that you would like some action taken such as making a call to his parents. if his parents don't listen get the school invovled. if the school doesn't get invovled-seek help from the police!
good luck hun!
2007-09-12 16:00:47 · answer #9 · answered by heater 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does your school not have a "No bullying" policy? I would go to the counselor or school's disciplinarian and tell them about the bullying. There is no reason that you should have to put up with it.
Good luck and I sincerely hope things get better for you...
2007-09-12 15:56:10 · answer #10 · answered by melodyahol 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋