Last night I had a dream that my girlfriend and I were engaging in sexual activity, in the dream it grossed me out and I told her to stop and she got mad at me. I don't understand why I would dream we were having sex when I am not sexually attracted to her? Confused.
2007-09-12 05:48:33 · 4 answers · asked by irisheyes47 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
When I say girlfriend I mean in a platonic way.
2007-09-12 05:49:41 · update #1
Sexual attraction is just that, sexual attraction. Human touch does not distinguish between male touch and female touch.
We are sexual beings. You have to accept that you can feel sexual pleasure from both male and female touch, you PREFER male attraction over female.
There are 2 things going on here. One is that you fully "embrace" your friend, meaning you fully accept her for who she is, including her bad qualities along with her good.
The other thing is that you recognize those same qualities within yourself, and "embrace" those qualities within yourself. Meaning that your friend has an attractive face and body, and you are attracted to her for that whether or not you admit it and embrace that in waking life. Your conscious logically tells
you she is your friend because you get along so well, your subconscious recognizes her sexual attraction, (like you would recognize in Victoria's Secret models but don't consciously admit to being attracted to them!) you just don't admit it to your self.
This does NOT mean you are a lesbian! It means you recognize that you see the sexual attraction in your friend, you just choose not to have sex with her! Instead of freaking out about this, or telling her all about it and expect a freak out session in return, try to seek out other pleasures that don't involve sex. There IS something to the theory that chocolate releases chemicals in the body that mimic sexual pleasure, you may be also experiencing good times with your friend that don't involve sex but are pleasurably satisfying. Let it be okay to be friends with your friend, and see if you can find a sexy hunk to replace her in your dream.
2007-09-12 06:05:43 · answer #1 · answered by enn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax, it's just a dream. Doesn't necessarily mean anything. Could be that you saw or heard something about lesbian sex and the thought invaded your dreams. Heck, you may not have even been aware that your brain registered it. Doesn't mean you have lesbian tendencies, nor does it mean your friend wants to have lesbian sex with you. Shrug it off and don't worry about it.
2007-09-12 05:59:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry. It's just a dream. My best ones are unique sexual encounters. The best was with Zoe from West Wing.
2007-09-12 06:09:05 · answer #3 · answered by Big Momma Carnivore 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes dreams will point out some hidden desire or otherwise (urgent) need. You can deny a dream (a fantasy or whatever) for only so long. You can "deny" yourself, repress certain needs or facets of your personality, but these images are not in your subconscious for nothing. Start asking yourself real questions my dear.
2007-09-12 06:11:16 · answer #4 · answered by robert43041 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋