I am pissed at my boyfriend today so I am ignoring all of his phone calls... Am I being caddy or a ***** or something?
What happened is...
He is away at college and I am currently filling out applications to transfer to a new college. I asked him to take a look at my transfer essay when he had a chance and just let me know what he thinks. He did not look at it until 11:30 last night and when he did, he looked at it for 10 minutes, told me where he thought I should change stuff and then said "Is that it? I am really busy and I have to go", instead of working on it with me like I asked, I would totally understand him being busy except that he told me how he spent 2 hours earlier in the day showing his roommate how to perform naughty things... And I was asking him to look at my essay ALL DAY since before he started his little workshop...
Am I wrong for being mad?
2007-09-12 05:07:04 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
just to clarify.. his roommate is a girl so i very much doubt he is cheating on me.. atleast not with her
2007-09-12 06:03:40 · update #1
Shelley -
I am not even sure what you are talking about, my boyfriend is gay, so why would he be having sex with his FEMALE roommate??
I am not saying anything here about women, I have a lot of respect for women and do not think any less of them for any reason... His roommate went to him and asked him for help, it is sort of the kind of thing a girl does when she has a gay best friend, I guess she assumed he knew a thing or two about it...
My boyfriend nor I nor anyone else in this world chose gay "lifestyles"... it was simply how we were born... Why would anyone choose a life of being hated and criticised over a "normal" life... I assure you I was not given a choice in the matter... Were you?? Did you decide to be straight one day? Because if you were somehow granted a choice, it probably means you are bi-sexual and it is sad that you would deny your own feelings just to please the rest of the world... in the end, is it gonna be your's or the world's happiness that matters?
2007-09-12 07:21:59 · update #2
No, Dearest, you do have the right to be angry; but don't over-react. You need to be able to tell him why it is you're angry with him without being overly emotional, throwing a fit or breaking down. He has treated you poorly but you can't fall to the same level. You should be angry but be grown up about it.
2007-09-12 05:38:43 · answer #1 · answered by Mama Otter 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I would be more mad at HOW and WHY he was showing his roommate to perform naughty things.
Seriously, doesnt sound good!
I would be super pissed off if I were you. Send him a text message or an email explaining just exactly what you are mad about and why. Then ask him all the questions you want. Its up to you if you want to answer the phone or not.
2007-09-12 05:53:14 · answer #2 · answered by sweetblueyes 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have critical anger issues.You noticed a image on the web, so that you desire to get in a combat? You have to gain knowledge of to manipulate your anger earlier than it will get you into critical quandary. You being mad used to be unjustified. Ofcourse she isn't going to love you, he simply broke up together with her every week prior. If something it sort of feels that he rushed entering a brand new courting with you. Hopefully he's over her, however most effective time will inform.
2016-09-05 11:26:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
me thinks you are focusing on the wrong source. He was showing his room mate how to do "naughty" things... and you are mad because he didn't look at your paper but for 10 minutes? I hope you have an open relationship... otherwise, this dude may be giving his "expert opinion" to other new guys in the school behind your back.
2007-09-12 05:46:56 · answer #4 · answered by Whatev' Yo' 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think I would be mad at "he told me how he spent 2 hours earlier in the day showing his roommate how to perform naughty things" more than the brushoff, but I would be mad at the brushoff as well.
2007-09-12 05:16:50 · answer #5 · answered by Clint 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Clinton... the whole brushoff can be dealt with by gettin someone who has time and cares to review your essay. but showing his roommate how to do "naughty things" thats a whole different ball game (no pun intended, really)..
Best of luck to you in your future with this guy
2007-09-12 05:29:39 · answer #6 · answered by lostboi3008 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think you might be over-reacting. Perhaps you should have mentioned that this was time-sensitive and to let you know if he didn't have time to review it. If he didn't have time to review it, he could have said so, and you could have had someone else look at it.
You need better communication. Giving him the silent treatment will just make it worse. Forgive him and get over it. Good luck.
2007-09-12 05:21:11 · answer #7 · answered by Robin W 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You have every right to be mad. How dare he spend time showing his room mate how to be fresh. Your situation is more important than that. He took time to tell you about it and then basically blew you off on your paper. I wouldn't answer his calls all day. Send his calls straight to voice mail.
2007-09-12 05:26:13 · answer #8 · answered by S.Renee` 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You have a right to be upset. He seems to be too busy for you and he really needs to know how that hurt you. Tell him
2007-09-12 06:42:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I'd be upset and more than a little curious about the room-mate.
Time to talk!
2007-09-12 05:27:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋